2006-09-04 03:24:16 · 11 answers · asked by jec110779 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave her alone for awhile to make up her mind as she can not have her cake and eat it too, unless you let her!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-04 03:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard situation, for her and you both. BUt if she can't make up her mind who she wants to be with, then I'd leave. BUt if she is just trying to have a decent relationship with the father, for the children, I'd say encourage it. If she can't make up her mind, you can always leave and tell her to find you when she is ready to have a relationship with only you.
2006-09-04 03:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by jonijuggsoncam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard situation, being always the 2nd one, I've got a similar situation and being confused as much as u are, just ask yorself if u love her and if u do than be right there for her against all odds because there's a reason why this guy is her EX
2006-09-04 03:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her, QUICK! She sounds like she's just looking for a meal ticket & someone to get her freak on with...who knows who else she'll want to take up with before it's over?
2006-09-04 03:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by kibbie01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she really shouldn't have both of you, but she shouldn't keep their father away from the kids if he is a good father (non abusive, etc). Is she 'with' both of you?
2006-09-04 03:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are NOT the childrens father someone else is, encourage their relationship, but you can love the children too. He is not a threat to you and your relationship with your girlfriend.
2006-09-04 03:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a woman with less complications
2006-09-04 03:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The older we get, the more common this will be! Nothing can be done but to get used to it. (and, it's never fun!)
2006-09-04 03:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get lost ASAP. She's a user.
2006-09-04 03:25:47 · answer #9 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a husband, friend, father, and lover.
2006-09-04 03:27:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋