Me and my husbands sex life has gone down since I reached my third trimester. Does anyone have any ideas on what I could do to spice it up while being this far along in my pregnancy?
2006-09-04 03:18:49 · 6 answers · asked by psyko_kittie12 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
hmmm... i dont know a guy who would ever turn down doggy style. And thats usually the most comfortable position for late term pregnant women.
Have you tried just inticing him with the words "lets try some new moves"? or how about "lets experiment". Generally thats pretty exciting.
Also, i dont know about your husband, but my husband will read those pregnancy magazines and books, and quite often they include grafic sex details, such as different ideas and positions for getting around that tummy. That usually works for him.
another nice idea is taking a minivacation to a hotel across town for the night. it makes things interesting to be elsewhere.
if youre having a problem getting in the mood, try requesting a back rub with warm oil or lotion... its amazing how easily you can get in the mood when you're relaxed, especially if he's helping you along. Husbands tend to enjoy all the new curves and hills of their wives pregnant bodies, and what better way to explore them than with warm oil?
Also, trying wake up sex first thing in the morning. Dont kiss if morning breath grosses you guys out. You stomach is usually minutely smaller in the morning, you're fresh and full of energy, and its a good use for all that morning... stiffness. A great way to start the day.
2006-09-04 03:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, changing positions will make it more comfortable for you. Doggy style is a favorite at this point in pregnancy. Any position that takes the weight off of your stomach will make sex more enjoyable. Talk with him and make sure he knows that sex will not hurt the baby. Many men start thinking that during the last stage of pregnancy that they will give their unborn child brain damage. Make sure he knows that it will not (if he looks unsure have the doctor reassure at the next office visit). Also most women are producing milk at this point in pregnancy. That is a turn on to some men and a turn off for others ( you will have to test the water on this one). Play dress up or go to a favorite spot. Try and enjoy the non interrupted sex while it last.
2006-09-04 03:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by iamdreama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is great and he should understand that you are in your third trimester. so why dont you both get in the shower and wash each other you dont have to have sex but just the touch of each other will help and then take walks togeter holding hands and there is nothing wrong in kissing and holding each other. Before you know it you both will be back in the sex theam again and enjoying each other the way it was even though there will be a baby in both of your lifes. Take care and God Bless
2006-09-04 03:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
UMMM..
THIS IS SO NORMAL, THEY HAVE A FEELING OF HURTING THE BABY, AND OUR BIG STOMACHS MAKE THEM UNCOMFORTABLE- OF COURSE. IMAGINE HAVING SEX WITH YOUR MATE AND OVER TIME THERE STOMACH TURNS INTO A ROUND BALL RIGHT BEFORE YOUR EYES-THIS COULD CAUSE A CHANGE IN YOU AS WELL.
DONT WORRY ABOUT THAT, MY BOYFRIEND AND I ARE CURRENTLY GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING AND IM 39 WKS TODAY--- AND TRUST ME, THEY DONT WANNA TELL YOU THE REASONS WHY THEY ARE FEELING LIKE THIS CAUSE THEIR "MEN".
SO DONT TAKE IT AS IF HE FINDS YOU UNATTRACTIVE ITS MORE TO IT THAN THAT. ITS A MATTER OF TRING TO ACCEPT THE CHANGES OUR BODIES ARE GOING THROUGH.
IT'LL BE OVER SOON ENOUGH!
GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING!!!
2006-09-07 19:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by msbrandnew02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex anyway.It will make the baby happier when it is born.
2006-09-04 03:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO SOMETHING JUST FOR HIM, A MASSAGE OR SOMETHING AND WEAR SOMETHING SEXY
2006-09-04 03:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by just me and my crew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋