2006-09-04 03:07:52 · 7 answers · asked by lavylulu 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I recommend the site http://www.healinghearts.org They have an excellent, free, online post-abortion study. Those who sign up for the study are paired with an email counselor, most likely a woman who has aborted a child herself. They can help!
2006-09-04 11:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hon! that is so hard. Believe it or not but it stays with you for ever if your a sensitive person two of my daughters had abortions and one never thinks about it she a tough girl the other is a soft loving person and it still haunts her to this day they were both young women when it happened and are now much older so just try real hard to get over it and let it go. Sweetie you cannot undo it it was a mistake you made but you can't let it destroy you either. Grandma Rosey
2006-09-04 03:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by ROSEY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i comprehend you do not prefer to take heed to it, yet counseling ought to nicely be of SUCH great help to you. perchance you need to rearrange a counselor to debate melancholy first, then in case you experience comfortable with him/her, you need to deliver this up and extremely have a danger to air out all of your thoughts. I also had an abortion, i replaced into very depressed, and nevertheless have concepts about it (3 years in the past). fortunately I had a good boyfriend (now husband) and we had many overdue-nighttime talks. i imagine speaking is what were given me via it, so in case you'll locate someone, each person, it really is prepared to pay interest, reply, hug, that is going to assist. I promise you receives via it in case you are able to basically stay solid now
2016-12-06 09:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by greenwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my first child that way and though it was not easy, I knew she was in a better place (with her Heavenly Father) and she was better there with him than her on the earth. If God did not call her home she would be here. It is all for an ordained reason. Only God knows why and we should be thankful for his will taking place in our life. I said maybe my daughter was sick in some way and God knew that would hurt me more than loosing her the way I did. He knows what's best and I still think of her fondly after 22 years and she is still remember by her brother and two sisters who came after her. You will be blessed again when the time is right. Peace.
2006-09-04 03:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read some tips on how to cope with depression on this site
2006-09-04 03:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IS THE WOMAN DEPRESSED OR ARE YOU DEPRESSED. IT SEEMS TO ME THAT ABORTION IS A HARSH FORM OF BIRTH CONTROL AND DEPRESSION WOULD BE THE NORM AFTER SUCH A PROCEDURE.
IF THIS WOMAN IS STILL DEPRESSED AFTER ABOUT SIX WEEKS, I'D SAY SEE A DOCTOR. MAYBE ANTI-DEPRESSANTS WOULD HELP.
2006-09-04 03:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be nasty, but please learn about and use birth control to prevent this happening in the future.
You need to talk to someone about your feelings. Talk to someone you trust. A good person to ask would be at the medical facility where you had the abortion performed. They have experience with it.
2006-09-04 03:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋