i decide not to marry anyone because i think when a person is married, he/she won't be free... isn't it true??? give me advices, please...
2006-09-04 02:44:55 · 12 answers · asked by gem 1 in Science & Mathematics ➔ Other - Science
i understand,i feel the same way sometimes but in life you never know what surprises might come, you say this now but suppose today you meet someone and fall head over heals in love with each other,just saying,keep an open mind.
2006-09-04 02:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by killbill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know your age or your personal history so its difficult to answer your question. Perhaps you have commitment issues. Perhaps you grew up feeling unloved like i did. When and if you find the right person I'm sure your feelings will change. Don't get married until you are sure you can stay committed to that person. Look for someone who feels the way you do. It is possible to get married and still have freedom as long as you are both secure in your feelings and can remain faithful to each other.
2006-09-04 10:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by psykobarbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look!i think the marriage matter is not necessary unless u haven't find the gd person that loves u a lot and understand u and respect u fiest of all!Personally if i don't find that kind of person i'm not getting married coz that don't worse to be locked up by a superficial marriage!So...
2006-09-04 09:53:42 · answer #3 · answered by purple_star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I wouldn't outright decide not to get married. I think you should wait, and when the right person comes and you DO love them, you'll know because marriage will no longer seem like being trapped. It will seem like a gift.
2006-09-04 09:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anneth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is necessary because human offspring are dependant for many years at the start of their life, and a strong pairbond between parents, providing double the nurture and protection, gives them a better chance of surviving to an age where they can fend for themselves.
2006-09-04 11:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what i would do if i didn't have someone who cared about me. if i choose to marry i will not be a free agent, but i don't want to be a free agent for the rest of my life. it's a choice everyone must make for themselves. i will have freedom to do as i choose though in most respects.
2006-09-04 09:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by shiara_blade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definitely false. Read Love Story
2006-09-04 09:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where would you be if your parents thought that love was not necessary, ask them and find out.
2006-09-04 09:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by markos m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gem, sorry you feel that way. Id like to marry you. well at least have relations with you...i can just imagine my clamhammer slicing that little hot box...oh,baby!
2006-09-04 09:51:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's this have to do with Science? hmmmmmm. Nothing???
You want advise, then put this into the dating/singles category where it belongs.
2006-09-04 09:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by beekiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋