How does pregnancy affect your relationship? Does having a baby bring you closer or does it bring you apart?
2006-09-04 02:34:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you only focus on the baby and not your husband, it brings you further apart. You need to both focus on the baby, have time together without the baby and have time for yourself. My husband was always jealous of the children because he never spent time with them and I had to do everything and had no time for him. Make sure you are both on the same page when training, schooling, punishing etc.
2006-09-04 02:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats something only that depends on alot of different faactors. Was the preg palnned? How did he react? Is there any abuse?
If thses have negative responses then you should end the relationship and protect yourself and the unborn baby...( its the harder road but you'll be stronger for it). If there is positive responses then the relationsship is in a good place and will probablly keep going that way. Nothing is guaranteed But when delt with lemons make lemonade ( you may have a hard time squeezing sometimes , but its worth it)
2006-09-04 02:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by the1mom1997 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It tends to make you both closer to the baby!
Tiny babies are hard work - all that crying is a lot for a really strong relationship to withstand, if you aren't getting on too well beforehand it can drive a couple far, far apart.
2006-09-04 02:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by marzipanthecat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first pregnancy my boyfriend at the time brought us to breaking up and living 1200 miles away from eachother. My second pregnancy my current boyfriend and I are still together and going strong. Good luck! Pregnancy dosn't keep a relationship together necessarly so make sure that hes the one and have fun.
2006-09-04 03:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by babykins1025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it brings you close together in a way but in a way the bf might feel left out cause the kid gets all the attention. it really depends on how your husband thinkss but most of the time it brings you closer together. but thats only if he loves you you cant just have aq guys kid and expect him to marry you or stay with ya cause the fact is your pregnant.
2006-09-04 02:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the beginning when u are pregnant it may make u 2 farther apart because of ur changing hormaones but once u have the baby u should grow closer together
2006-09-04 02:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have issues already, a baby would add more strain to an already rocky relationship. However, if things were good before the baby, they should get better.
2006-09-04 03:10:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it brings you closer, and others tears them apart.
2006-09-04 02:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by Deshawn & Keshawn's mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends only upon the two in the relationship and the goals that each has set for themselves. As for my husband and myself, each time I got pregnant, a new bond formed between us. I should say, it strengthened our bonds of love. My husband is honored that I carried his children.
2006-09-04 02:43:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe "ratatouillewoo" above. My husband is 28 years previous and nonetheless acts like a new child. He performs video games, jokes around consistently, he's incredibly immature. yet he's likewise a great father. at first, enable me say which you look very mature on your age, and that i think of you will make a great mom. yet remember, your boyfriend is incredibly youthful. turning out to be a determine at 17 years previous would be confusing for every physique, fantastically a teenage boy. he's appearing like a new child because of the fact he's a new child. while you're arguing 24/7 because you are able to no longer cope along with his immaturity, then perchance attempt to settle for him for how he's. as quickly as the toddler arrives, he will in all probability mature some, a minimum of contained in the parenting branch. yet once you 2 are scuffling with for different motives, then perchance you merely are not properly suited. some human beings merely won't be able to get alongside, that's not appropriate how previous they are. So i think of you are able to desire to choose what the inspiration of your undertaking is. If that's something you are able to manage, then attempt to paintings it out. it could additionally be your hormones getting the perfect of you. If there are bigger themes inflicting the consistent scuffling with, then perchance you're able to circulate on. specifically cases 2 human beings could be greater appropriate mothers and dads by being aside, as oppose to staying mutually and scuffling with perpetually. Like I mentioned, all men are infantile. so as that could desire to no longer be the only reason you call it quits. i does no longer substitute a element approximately my infantile husband. He makes me chortle, and he could be mature while i want him to be. attempt to stay useful and supply your boyfriend it sluggish. all and sundry is going by tough patches, and having a touch it is easy to be annoying in itself. merely wait and notice, your boyfriend merely ought to ask your self you. good success & Congrats~
2016-09-30 08:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋