2006-09-04 02:30:09 · 32 answers · asked by Nottingham man 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My question wasn't totally clear before....I mean I want to give and to a man...but...I genuinely don't fancy men!...someone explain
2006-09-04 02:52:17 · update #1
i also had that feeling. i am a curious straight guy, and just took the plunge, it was actually agreat experience, one i would try again
2006-09-04 06:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by dynomite2019 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you G spot (if you're a guy) is up your ****!!
Try some sex toys or something. Nothing wrong with exploring your body. Buy.... if you want anal why do you straight away think that you have to fancy men for it. If you were totally 100% comfortable with your sexuality that wouldn't even enter your head I doubt.
2006-09-04 02:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had anal sex before, the feel of a live **** in me was such a great feeling, but I too don t fancy men and don t want to be with one
So I know where you are coming from on this
2016-12-13 12:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by Julian Reid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please clarify: my understanding is that you would like a live penis but without a man attached to it. If you can settle for a dildo substitute you might be satisfied with that. You could try to get your girlfriend to do you with a dildo or a strap-on if you settle for that. Alternatively you could ask her to put her hand up your bottom. Her hand is warm and much more penis-like than a dildo. I would say it would do ... at a stretch. Lube and poppers are your best friends. On the other hand you might just meet the man who does it for you.
Failing all else, have you considered going to a prostitute (male or female)? A suitable female prostitute would be quite happy to dildo you, while a male prostitute would be sufficiently anonymous for you to allow you to concentrate on the penis and forget the face.
In fact I think this is a phase and that in time you will probably overcome your distate for men.
Augusta
2006-09-04 03:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there fella
listen mate I wouldn't worry your self there's nothing wrong with wanting anal sex, gay or straight it don't matter. you can buy all sorts of gadgets these days from sex shops. Did you know that the mans G-spot is up the rectum (Bum). Try reading about the male anatomy. If your in a relationship and your scared of the reaction from your partner, clue your self up get the facts before you do then at least you have some ammunition in order to stop them thinking your a freak or something. I introduced my bloke to his *** and it freaked him out too, he couldn't understand why he liked it. I hope I helped a little.
2006-09-04 03:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jobianna 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just close your eyes and look forward. I have known many men, who consider themselves straight, that wanted to take it up the rear. ALot of it has to do with the pleasure of it, and the pleasure from the prostate, and the direct stimulation you get form anal sex. I am a gay man, primarily a bottom, so I COMPLETLEY undertand this....but sometimes I want direct penile stimulation, so I will top too. Just remember to always use condoms. Have your partner use them if they are penetrating, and you if you are.
2006-09-04 05:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just get yourself down the local sex shop and get yourself the old Anal Intruder 2000.
Or close your eyes and think of KD Lang while getting one up the bum from a willing man
2006-09-04 02:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by poli_b2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy and reality can be two complete different things...
for example, a lot of women fantasize about rape but would not ever want to be raped in reality, people fantasize about having sex with a whole football team but will not ever do that in reality, it might be something like that with you. You might get turned on by the fantasy without wanting to live it out in reality.
But maybe it is different for you then I described, and you would like to live your fantasy out.
What you are saying is you want to give it to a man, but you don't feel attracted to men. Maybe the fantasy is enough for you, in that case you might have anal sex with a woman and fantasize that she is a man. If that is not enough for you, maybe you should experience with it for real to find it out.
You could ask yourself if you are really physically not attracted to men. By the way, having sex with a guy does not automatically mean that you are gay, if that is confusing you.
You are talking about a sexual fantasy. Putting yourself in a labeled box might get you confused, enjoying or living out the fantasy will free you. You are the only one who truly knows what you want, and if we judge our own sexuality we put ourselves behind bars.
It might be interesting to go and find your borders! Maybe the fantasy is enough for you. Enjoy them then! If not, go for the new adventure and find it out yourself.
Have fun :-)
2006-09-04 07:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by Bloed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a good percentage of completely heterosexual men who have learned to enjoy their "ring of joy."
It stimulates your prostate as well as numerous nerve endings. It's best to introduce yourself to it slowly, if you haven't already.
Then, it will take an understanding partner to participate with you. Many people have such strong issues about their anuses that they could never be part of it...as well as having to confront the issue that some women will think any man who wants to experience his anus in a sexual context has homosexual tendencies.
2006-09-04 03:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by blueowlboy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, there are enough heterosexual guys who participate in "pegging" that there's an entire article on wikipedia about it with several references you can check out.
Look at the site for my source to learn more now! Woo!
2006-09-04 05:35:48 · answer #10 · answered by Kylie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That my friend is completely normal. It is all about experimenting with new things, Get a strap on for your g/f. That's where your G-Spot is
Wow how exciting! I'm gonna ring my boyfriend right now! x
Enjoy!!
2006-09-04 02:34:03 · answer #11 · answered by xXMichelleXx 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋