OK Im trying to conceive at 35 yrs old for 4 months without much luck!! I'm totally fed up with feeling sad and frustrated about this so to cheer me up and boost my self esteem, I'd love to hear any tales and advice for those lucky people who have managed to conceive naturally over the age of 35!!
2006-09-04 02:16:37 · 14 answers · asked by Serry's mum 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
lol u have all cheered me up. So Im going to stop worrying, book into a theme park for that roller coaster ride and find a nursing home for the future which doesn't have 18 yr old philipino nurses, just incase!!!! Thanks so much
2006-09-04 02:43:03 · update #1
vickke - Im so sorry for your loss and do understand how u will be feeling as it happened to me 2 years ago. Keep strong and don't be afraid to express how u are feeling
2006-09-04 02:44:46 · update #2
my bf's mom did..she delivered my bf's sister when she was 38..
followed by him..at the age of 43..
its normal to have kids over the age of 35..there r lots of women out there bz working everyday til they 4get bout wat they should do..
chill babe~
2006-09-04 02:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by m_junielz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I am not over the age of 35 yet, I had the same situation. I had gotten a reversal in Nov. 05 and I finally got preg. after 8 years. Will I miscarried the baby at EARLY stage. Then I TRIED AND TRIED yet it seemed like I was getting know where I was so down in the dumps my self. Yet, I put it in my head if the good lord lets it happen then It will happen for me I guess it just wasn't met to be at that time for me. My husband although wanted to still try and try finally I just had sex every 2 days for a month and I am now 14 weeks and so far so good with this preg. So keep your head up hun some times it happens to the best of us. God will help you through it all and when HE sees it is the right time you WILL have a new bundle of joy as well.
2006-09-04 10:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i will give you the same advise i gave my sister in law which is in the same situation
Everything happens for a reason
you are healthy
you are a loving and kind person
you have a man that loves you through peaks and valleys
Everything else will solve on it's on time
the most important thing don't stress out,and wherever you do after intercourse stay laying down it sure help me
i have 3 of my own
good luck
2006-09-04 09:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by ny_lollippop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took my husband and I 3 1/2 years to concieve our first child!! Talk about stressed out. However it was only after we relaxed and stopped trying so hard that it worked!! The second time around, it only took 4 months!! Best of luck to you!
2006-09-08 00:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by Queen of it all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents had me at 40, my youngest in-laws were conceived at 35,37, 40 and 45. The deal seems to be not to get too stressed out or anxious. If it happens, it happens. If not, there are other options to choose among. I figure you want your own, but if you adopt, you can choose all sorts of options and provide a good home for someone whose biological parents can't or won't. Children are a choice who need us.
2006-09-04 09:30:01 · answer #5 · answered by jelesais2000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try changing your perfume! If this doesn't work, try changing into something sexier! If this doesn't work then he may not realize your wanting to have sex. (Us guys aren't always good at taking hints)
If sex is regular... Try it at different times of day. If this doesn't work, try different positions. If this doesn't work - Try a different partner. If this isn't an option, try conceiving unnaturally! (specialist assistance/medications- NOT sex with animals ...that's just too unnatural!)
OKAY- not a very serious response but just keep having fun and don't make this a chore! Worst case scenario; There's all ways plenty of alternatives.
2006-09-05 21:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by prada guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy that at 35 your husband still wants you and not some 18 year old, hot Filipina.
If that don't cheer you up, nothing will.
2006-09-04 09:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by Roger S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg you act like your 70 just have sex everyday go crazy don't think about it have crazy sex morning noon and night and one day you will be fat and have a huge hump and an aching back and kid that says goo goo and when a teenager will tell you to hide because your embarrassing and there friends are coming then steal your money and go to college and put you in a nursing home and never visit
2006-09-04 09:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All good things come to those who wait.4 months of trying is not long . The more you want something the longer it takes to get it. Relax and enjoy yourself.
2006-09-04 09:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has nothing to do with ur age cos there are women who gave birth at the age of 40. just make sure u time ur intercourse start making love on the 12day of ur cycle to the 16th day start counting from 1st day of ur period .Goodluck dont stress urself.
2006-09-04 09:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by amy a' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it time hun, i am 21 and it took us 6 mons to get pregnant sadley i jsut miscarried at 3 mons yesterday!!!but i wish u the best of luck and keep trying
2006-09-04 09:42:59 · answer #11 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋