The g/f for 9 years has left me, should I ring or tex just to say that I miss her or wait until she calls?

Question

I know personally that I have done nothing wrong, but a smoothy friend who I trusted has now taken her from me. It won't last, because I know what he is like, he's had two wifes who ditched him. He was jealous of my partner and he is pleased that he has made me unhappy. I entered this similar post on Friday night (& had some good answers. Thank you.) When we broke up Friday, she openly said that she was a b**ch. also said she will be always at the end of a telephone for my calls, if I want any help. I would love to talk with her to find out what has happened for us to split. She still loves me still I know. The many answers from my similar posts have said I should find someone else, but she is the one for me; no other person can take her place. She helped me through thick & thin. Thank you for your answers

Please help me over this.

Answer 1

For the time being, do not call or text her. Let it be. If anything this will push her away.

If this is a romantic fling on her part, it will fade with time and she will return. If this is the start of something else on her part, only time will tell. The worst thing you can do is contact her and remind her that she just might be a B**ch.

If not speaking to her leads you to desperation, allow that desperation to build until it is causing gross imbalance or disruption of your daily life. Then call to ask how to get over her (that is the help you will need).

If she does not call, consider seeking help to get over her. She may have found the love of her life who is just as "two faced" as she might be.

Answer 2

You should call her and talk to her to see what went wrong. But if she does not want to talk to you, then you should move on.

Answer 3

if you want to talk to who she is banging now!!
get a life..........move on!!
what part don't you get, she don't want you??
part of being a man is knowing...........you can't always get what you want........
but if you try sometimes........you will get what you need.
anyways, why would you want someone who don't want you??
think of it like this......
think of a girl who you don't like........not your type........
now tell yourself there is something she can do to make you want her.
chances are what happened to make you split involves something that you really don't want to know about.
she cheated on you!!!

Answer 4

yes it sounds like you really should call and talk to her, but if she really wanted to leave you dont call so much that you sound clingy