Me and daughtr father been 2gether for 12 years I have moved on and so has he.He is now messing with someone with four kids,and I allow my 10 year to go over,but she said it's not fair when I ask her she won't tell me.I asked him and he said she's fine.This lady has a 16,14,12,and 9 year old.Now he was always a good dad to her,but as far as finaces he sucked,I hope he's not doing for her kids and have'nt offered me a dime for school supplies or nothing.She said her dad gf is really nice to her but her kids are wild and she don't like that her dad takes her there to spend the night,but she likes playing with the small child ladies please help I'm confused and new to this because me and her dad was 2gether for so long.
2006-09-04 01:34:56 · 11 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Listen to your daughter. She IS telling you something. Don't make it look that you are questioning her, start with a general conversation and go to the point. About your husband, you know him after so many years better than we do. But I bet you stayed with him way too long. Good luck.
2006-09-04 01:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't need to worry as long as she is being taken care of properly and I'm sure she is. She needs to get used to a blended family environment when she's at his house and you worrying about it isn't going to help her adapt.
As far as him paying for the other kids school supplies, if he lives in the house with them he's probably helping with it. But if he pays you child support then you have no reason to complain. After you receive your support it's not your business what he spends his money on.
If he's not paying child support, take him to court for it.
2006-09-04 08:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I don't understand your question. "I allow my 10 year to go over,but she said it's not fair when I ask her she won't tell me." What does this mean?
Do you get child support from him? If not, get court ordered child support now. You don't want your kids to go without because their father is supporting someone else's kids.
If you are worried about your child being with her children, tell your ex that you'd prefer that he spends time with your children alone, away from the others.
2006-09-04 08:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all your faulth.. You should not have allowed it for him to be messing with someone with four kids..
It is all your fault.
Now,,, if you cannnot tell him to back off..
Better prepare yourself for the worst. She is not your daughter anyway... and probably you are not married when you live together... So you can still get another single guy out there...
You have ruined your 12 years by simply allowing him to mess up with that woman with 4 kids..
Prepare for the worst.
2006-09-04 08:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off. When she's with dad she is in good hands. You said he is a good dad so give him the benefit of the doubt when she is with him. Besides, where he takes her during his time is none of your business, provided she is in a loving and caring envirionment.
2006-09-04 08:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by eddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u dont need to worry my dad hasent helped me with anything my whole life i dont even know him so u dont need to worry about a thing
2006-09-04 08:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your daughter doesn't like going there.
the older kids are mean to her.
2006-09-04 08:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. maybe you should consider taking adoult english classe's then i could understand what you have asked.
2006-09-04 08:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by Hitcher In The Picture 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no need to get worry
2006-09-04 08:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by Hussain N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry what a pity
2006-09-04 08:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by Somi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋