my age is 14 n i am in love with a boy.i dont know he loves me or not.i cant forget him..... what to do. plz help me.plz.
2006-09-04 01:26:37 · 23 answers · asked by priya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Aren't you too young to be in love with a boy? Give yourself another 6 years and if you still feel that you are love with him, then you have not changed your views. However, I am absolutely certain that your views will change in less than 2 years.
It's simple, you do not know what love is. If you answer yes to all the questions below, then you are in love;
1. Is he in your mind all the time?
2. Are you concerned for him?
3. Are you prepared to be pregnant by him and give birth to a baby?
4. Are you prepared to sacrifice what you love to do for his sake?
5. Do you know his weaknesses? Can yiou accept them?
6. If he's not financially independent, are you prepared to slog for him?
7. Can you tolerate it if he has no respect for you?
8. Are you prepared even to forsake your family for him?
9. Even if your answers are yes to all of the above, are you sure he loves you?
2006-09-04 01:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here think that what exactly the love means. Does it mean just opposite sex attraction, or you think good of him.( you are too young to think but try). Now think what do you want from him. Successful married life? or just friendship?1) if married life think all other aspects like his carrier, family,behaviour, Then think whether you adjust with him( you have to study,make career and think of your family along with this) 2) if you want just a friendship, see that he also want `only` friendship and not an affair. Supposing that you are very emotional girl, i think that in life not `only` emotion but some kind of rational thinking is useful...so decide and ask him directly but....if he refuses.......u have to control yourself.......so best of luck for your future
2006-09-04 08:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by URFRIRND 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll share your sorrows priya...
find wheather he loves u r not .... if not put ur concentration in someother things such as ur education etc...
ok its my kind suggestion to u that this is not the age for u to fall in love ..... it will be very hard for u to take these words from me but once u expirence my words u'll understand for sure....
any problem or u like to share something dont hessitate to mail me i'll be avalable in yahoo im or u can call me throu yahoo voice such that v can speak dont be down for anything i'm there as a friend for u.... to share anything and everything ok va..........
be smiling....
2006-09-04 08:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by usave54 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young and in love....you still have so many heartbreaks and loves yet don't rush it things have a way of working out and you will learn so much about yourself and what you really want and what love is, be patient and you'll find what your looking for, in time. Smile. ( as for if he loves you just ask! )
2006-09-04 08:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by deadshscott 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there will be many more heart aches so buck up and go on. it is just a feeling it will pass. the best way to get over an old love is to get a new love get honey. smile it does get better trust that
2006-09-04 08:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by lost one 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested in this boy, let him know. You are so young and your first crush is so full of emotion. If he isn't interested in you as you are him, you will have to accept it and go on. I use to have many "secret crushes" on boys. No one would know but me. They passed and I grew up and I admire them. Just be careful and safe. Don't let anyone peer pressure you into doing something you do not want to do. Just tell him you like him and go from there.
2006-09-04 08:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
School life is more precious enjoy that and study well.
you can keep in contact with him as a true friend.
Later(not now after some years) you can propose him.
2006-09-04 08:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by krishna k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r just a kid.concentrate on ur studies dont bother about stupid things.Invest ur free time in ur hobbies.Go out with ur friends,family.U will get ur love when time is right.till then keep studying
2006-09-04 08:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear you are too small to ask this question..but its love and it can happen at any age..so go and try to find out by becoming his best friend first..but keep on with your studies
2006-09-05 08:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by rahul sharma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear sweet angel , pleeeeeeeeeeease do concentrate on your studies , at your age these has no meaning , better good name , maintain good health .
2006-09-04 08:32:10 · answer #10 · answered by your noon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋