tell someone that i'm going to date that i never had a girlfriend or shouldn't I? How would she react if i tell her that i never had a girlfriend?
2006-09-04 00:52:58 · 16 answers · asked by lacoste 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You can let her know she is your first girlfriend, after she becomes your girlfriend. Of course, if she asks, be honest. Tell her you have never been comfortable around women until you met her. That will make her feel good.
2006-09-04 00:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
More importantly that telling her that you've never dated is how you'll explain why you are having panic attacks in simple social settings. That would be more useful that your past dating history. Girls dont care if youve dated others. In fact most would probably enjoy the vacation from dating a guy with previous relational baggage.
2006-09-07 20:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by psyprof 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that did not start dating until he was like 19 or 20. He asked me the exact same thing. I told him not to tell the girl because this would most likely make her run away, and I told him if he felt bad about lying he could tell her if she asked and explain why he didn't. He went on his date and never told her. The girl never noticed that it was his first time, and they dated for about 3 weeks until he decided to break it off for being incompatible.
Any woman that says she wouldn't run away and be flattered is lying to you. This is like telling a woman that you are a virgin.
2006-09-04 00:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by Alucard 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeh you should tell her, and explain why you have never had a girlfriend. I don't think most girls would care - I wouldn't. I'd actually be flattered if i was a guy's first girlfriend. Just remember to always be truthful with her, because one lie you get away with leads to another and she'll eentually find out.
2006-09-04 00:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude you are an adult,How on earth did you manage to survive all these years without a girlfriend...I think she'll laugh at first,then she'd have no choice but to accept it. Regardless it can work to your favor until she finds out you lying.So don't lie dude.
2006-09-04 01:25:28 · answer #5 · answered by Cube 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't even announce it. There's alot to talk about besides coming out and mentioning that.Chances are, if that's what you tell her she'll take advantage of that right away.Be prepared to getting your heart broke in case it don't work out and know if it doesn't there's someone else out there.Good luck!
2006-09-04 01:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, don't tell her right off the bat, as this could stop every thing from happening for you both,but don't lie either,if it comes up then Tell her but for now just have fun and try to be happy about the first one you have this time in your life.
2006-09-04 03:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by DENISE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was me i would tell her, maybe later on in the date, whats the worst that can happen? just remember she will probably be a little surprised about the fact but nothing bad should come of it.
2006-09-04 01:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by lheitjan_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't really tell because she may not understand.use little steps to begin with,don¸t go for dinner,first meet her for coffee and you will feel more confident with the time.Good luck!
2006-09-04 02:27:28 · answer #9 · answered by sanja77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inidicate that until now you had other goals and were not ready to have a committed relationship, but now that you have obtained those goals, you are looking for a more serious relationship.
2006-09-04 01:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by kajagorden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋