not get togheter as date or anything.just meet.but he pisses me off and he calls me everyday.help pls!!!!!!!
2006-09-04 00:51:54 · 15 answers · asked by dee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have to be firm with him and extremely honest. Even down right rude with him if he persists. Some believe perserverance is the answer to everything.. You have to make him believe that there is no chance in hell you'd ever concider being with him.
2006-09-04 00:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by badddddad 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jeez, a stalker
First - try to get rid of him with things that would put him off. Be creative, and don't pretend your pregnant. That might come back to bite you if he hasn't found anyone else to stalk. If putting him off doesn't work...
Tell him outright you don't want to see him.
If that doesn't work, tell his friends he's being an annoying stalker, and is scaring the crap out of me. This should get his friends worried about him, and might make him stop. Do not make threats like calling the cops, he might be insane.
If that doesn't work, tell him yourself you seem all you see is a desperate stalker. Reconfirm you really don't want to go out with him, say you can't appreciate him, and what your doing is not, or nor will it ever help. It's only freaking you out. Don't do this in private in case he's an insane person. That would be bad.
If he ignores his friends, Denys he's a stalker, and is still harassing you, I would suggest calling the cops. He seems rather phycho.
2006-09-04 08:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, although I don't know how to help you, I could tell you jokes to help you feel better. The jokes goes:
-Doctor! I have a serious problem, I can never remember what i just said.
-When did you first notice this problem?
-What problem?
One more joke:
A guy calls his vet and says "What should I do with my cat?Vet says "What do you mean? Guy says "I had a leak in my lawnmowers gas tank and the cat drank the gas. Then the cat began to run around and around the yard, climbed a tree. then fell out of the tree stiff. Vet says "Is the cat dead? Guy replies "nope he ran out of gas.
Last of all just want to tell you that whatever you do, just don't give up. Also you must love and care for the people around you. In that way they will also show you the love that you show to them. Just be yourself and happy everyday. Wish you all the best and good luck!!
2006-09-04 07:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do don't cave in to him and meet with him . Report it to the phone company as a nuisance caller. Maybe contact the police as a stalker incident. Keep a log of all the times and dates he calls. If you're out alone anytime be aware of what's going on around you.
2006-09-04 08:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Dee... Well, I'm no expert, but I've been shot down enough to give my opinion! :) I would say that you should just be very up front and honest with him. Talk to him and be straight to the point. Sometimes when people are letting someone down they tend to beat around the bush. If you are blunt, he should get the point, at least hopefully he will! :)
2006-09-04 07:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by jasonmedic15 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean, just go out, no holding hands or making out. that's easy, go with them, be nice, we're all in this together. but if he calls everyday that's a lesson on how not to give out your # so much. coffee, running errands, shopping, what's wrong with that, bring someone else along as well. this is easily fixed, if you're going with someone steadily than explain this to them. but be nice, you never know who this person might end up being in your life. be cool, you know you are...
2006-09-04 07:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the best thing to do would be to NOT give your phone number out to guys unless you know them pretty well. Since you did give it out, I would probably get one of those things where you can block his number on your phone, change your phone number completely; or tell him that you're not interested in meeting him.
2006-09-04 07:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by poeticjustice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to BACK OFF! If that doesn't do the trick, block his number from your Phone....get as much Info about him and report his butt to the Authorities as this could get dangerous.
2006-09-04 07:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you relly feel and stop sugar caoting it. I am pretty sure if you use the right words he will get the picture.
2006-09-04 07:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he cares about you. But like a typical girl, you dont appericate it.
Girls are heart breakers
2006-09-04 07:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by bigmoneymakinhustla 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋