2006-09-04 00:50:58 · 22 answers · asked by plasticfloor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is a difficult one .. the conventional wisdom answer would be . no because she is responsible .. she loves you ...etc ..
but I can feel your pain . you worry that if they attract 'that kind of attention' then she will get it too .. or that they will lead her into mischief .. or that she will prefer being 'single' than with you ..
There is no easy answer to this one I am afraid .. all you can do is tell her how you feel, but ensure that she knows you are not trying to repress her .. just that you worry that she might get into a difficult or potentially dangerous / unpleasant situation and that it worries you because you love her.
If she chooses to be with these friends or worse do something she shouldnt there is little you can do .. but then if you think she really is that sort of person you wouldnt be with her .. all you can do is trust her and hope that she sees that these people make her look bad and as such stops hanging around with them ..
Tough being a guy aint it :)
2006-09-04 01:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends whether she is easily influenced by her friends or if she is fine doing her own thing. It is possible for her to cheat although you will have to base your doubts on past experiences. Has she cheated before? Was she out with these slapper friends of hers when she did?
Or is she straight and true - to you?
2006-09-04 11:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by advent m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you dont trust her!!! Just coz her friends are slappers doesnt mean your wife is going to stray!! You need to trust her! Unless of course she HAS cheated in the past, then maybe you are entitled to your doubts.
Speak to her about this - just explain your concerns about her friends, she'll put your mind at ease Im sure.
2006-09-04 08:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, although I don't know how to help you, I could tell you jokes to help you feel better. The jokes goes:
-Doctor! I have a serious problem, I can never remember what i just said.
-When did you first notice this problem?
-What problem?
One more joke:
A guy calls his vet and says "What should I do with my cat?Vet says "What do you mean? Guy says "I had a leak in my lawnmowers gas tank and the cat drank the gas. Then the cat began to run around and around the yard, climbed a tree. then fell out of the tree stiff. Vet says "Is the cat dead? Guy replies "nope he ran out of gas.
Last of all just want to tell you that whatever you do, just don't give up. Also you must love and care for the people around you. In that way they will also show you the love that you show to them. Just be yourself and happy everyday. Wish you all the best and good luck!!
2006-09-04 07:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
its a tough one becuase when say your out with the lads and the drink is following do you feel tempted or do you say no lads? its similar for girls if they are out with girls who are looking for fun then they will automatically be a part of it doesnt mean they will do anything but the temptation will be stronger lets face it we are all human the tough thing is when your in a relationship do you both know eachother well enough to know how eachother would react in those situations if you dont then i suggest you have a chat with eachother and tell eacthother your feelings inthese temptation situations. I hope it all works out the way you want it to!
2006-09-04 08:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by spaceman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife's her own person, if her two friends get up to no good, it doesn't mean she will. Trust her, unless shes given you a reason not to.
2006-09-04 11:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, most definitely. If her friends are slapping it around, then undoubtedly so will your wife. If I were you mate, I'd file for divorce now. Quit while you're ahead
2006-09-04 08:02:09 · answer #7 · answered by trog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife`s as sensible as you think I wouldn`t worry. Her friends are the trouble causers, not your wife.
2006-09-04 08:05:45 · answer #8 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would worry about her if u dont trust her!
if u 2 are happy and u know she loves u and wouldn never do anything then i wouldnt worry!
2006-09-04 07:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by princessnicola23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not every one is tarred with the same brush.................i have a mate who is a self confessed slapper and my hubby trusts me when i'm out with her, i don't go out to get fellas i go out to dance and have a good time.........
2006-09-04 07:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by fossil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋