I believe in settling any arguements before i go to bed and often times he would just not talk. I tried talking to him but this doesnt work. I tried not talking and it took us 2 days to resolve theproblem only to find out that he got scared I stayed quiet. I dont like small things to go for days. Help?
2006-09-04 00:32:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just give him some time. He'll talk when he's ready. Some people just doesn't want to talk when they're mad. If you force him to talk when he doesn't want to, you'll only create even more arguements. I know you're the type of person that like to resolve problem on the same time if possible. but you also have to understand that he's the opposite type. Calm down....you'll be just fine.
2006-09-04 00:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by babe_of_spanish_gladiator69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, although I don't know how to help you, I could tell you jokes to help you feel better. The jokes goes:
-Doctor! I have a serious problem, I can never remember what i just said.
-When did you first notice this problem?
-What problem?
One more joke:
A guy calls his vet and says "What should I do with my cat?Vet says "What do you mean? Guy says "I had a leak in my lawnmowers gas tank and the cat drank the gas. Then the cat began to run around and around the yard, climbed a tree. then fell out of the tree stiff. Vet says "Is the cat dead? Guy replies "nope he ran out of gas.
Last of all just want to tell you that whatever you do, just don't give up. Also you must love and care for the people around you. In that way they will also show you the love that you show to them. Just be yourself and happy everyday. Wish you all the best and good luck!!
2006-09-04 00:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
initiate doing issues at the same time so which you have stuff to communicate approximately! you artwork 2 completely diverse jobs, perhaps he would not experience like speaking approximately his to you, as you will no longer know it or totally enjoy it, in actuality you will possibly probable locate it boring!! So what else do you have in straightforward? properly, while you're out partying each nighttime, he's not spending high quality time with you - what's he meant to do? communicate with you approximately how superb his night homestead on my own became back? NO!! My better half and that i communicate each nighttime earlier mattress - approximately no longer something and each little thing! On weekends, we lie in mattress interior the mornings for hours in basic terms speaking nonsense! lol, proportion previous reviews and what we would decide to do interior the destiny, etc. yet we spend time at the same time so we are gentle sharing something and each little thing with one yet another, plus we've lots in straightforward we could communicate approximately (i.e.: the action picture we watched final nighttime, the holiday we plan to take next 3 hundred and sixty 5 days, the plans we've for Christmas, etc.)
2016-11-06 09:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband refusal to talk to you when he is mad is a good sign of having respect for you. Reason being that he doesn't want to say anything that will hurt you, hence, creating more problem than he can handle.
Try this following: write a note asking for forgiveness, the dinner is ready, can we walk a block? Asking him something he is interested in. Your marriage is in good course. Pray together.
2006-09-04 00:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by sambabaj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my lady and i are just like that. i see this reason for doing that: arguments make us hot-headed and less likely to make responsible decisions, and if we don't do that, there's a chance that it will grow bigger. maybe your husband thinks like that too and is worried that pissing you of more couldn't help the situation, in hopes that the next day both of you are in better position to make responsible decisions. it's not the best way to solve problems but not all people are capable of dealing with problems in a snap, some needs to buy some time. i hope it helped a bit, good luck
2006-09-04 00:43:42 · answer #5 · answered by Big Bird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force him to talk if he does not want to. You know this is the way he is and you can't change that. I do the same thing and personally when I am mad I dont want to talk to anyone either. Whether it be your fault or his, you can't force him to open up if he is not ready Thats just the way it is. He will come around when he is ready and visa versa:-)
2006-09-04 00:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by JBFAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r a lucky lady.
It is better for both of u not talking or discussing things when u or him is mad.
When he is mad u have to accept all what he would say or do, and normally things he would say would never be fine for u.
Keep his way go on, and don't forget that this is his character also, so it is not a big deal.
2006-09-04 00:47:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he continues with his "silent treatment", you will have to take a holiday away from him for 2-3 weeks. See if he bucks up.
2006-09-04 01:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will talk when he is ready and not before give him room and ask is he ok, whats wrong ect. when he comes back around he will talk then. check out men are from mars women are from venus it covers this porblem it is quite common.
2006-09-04 00:37:00 · answer #9 · answered by setter505 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men just don't want to talk, cos they might regret what would be said in the heat of the moment...
2006-09-04 00:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋