2006-09-03 23:30:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well same thing happens to me, i'm straight and lesbians always hit on me and i think i dont look like a lesbian at all... maybe those gays find u sexy and that's y they hit on u...
2006-09-04 01:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if every gay man that you have met tries to hit on you then you haven't met every gay man.Perhaps they do it because you give off a vibe that tells them you are gay and perhaps you are generally attractive.
But if you're not gay and/or not interested then politely tell them so and thank them for the compliment.If they persist then that is called harassment and is another story that needs to be dealt with by repeating your message of non interest with a stronger tone.
2006-09-03 23:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by BuckFush 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would not hit on a guy that I know its straight. That is because straight guys don't make long eye contact with gay men and they are not always checking to see if gay men is looking at them or checking them out. Trust me, but straight or gay people know when someone is not interested. Let me share a quick story. I have some hundreds of selfproclaimed straight men at the gym, that like to take a long time go get dressed after their workout, and they constanly glancing at the mirrors just to see who's checking them out. They pretend to be paranoid, but yet they like to be undressed for the longest.
2006-09-04 17:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you are sending mixed messages. Gay men have no interest in straight men.
2006-09-04 04:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you misread their intentions, contrary to popular belief gay men do not hit on everyone with a penis.
2006-09-04 01:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're attractive, it shouldn't threaten your masculenity.
And you sound like a dick, so if I met you I definatly wouldn't hit on you. If that makes you feel any better.
2006-09-04 03:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by Adam G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you honestly think you know the sexuality of EVERY MAN that you have ever met? Impossible. Impossible that every gay man that has ever met you has hit on you.
If you aren't gay, "thanks, but no thanks" works.
2006-09-04 03:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by bluest storms 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why because the straight people I've known forever know I would never hit on them.... Hmmmm you sure your not sending any signals?
2006-09-04 05:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by Super 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be handsome dude and i you are been liked my males its compliment that you most good looking lad . take notice of this people say your gay. i have plenty of straight lads as friends and they are cute and sometimes i would fancy them but i know they are straight but their no harm in looking at them
2006-09-04 11:14:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cos u look gay
2006-09-03 23:32:34 · answer #10 · answered by Superfeng 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋