i hv a gf who lovs me but 3 months ago did abortio,always says 2 me that wen she remember she always hate me coz am the one who caused!,yday she told me that she lovs me but she wil not 4 giv me,so which ways can i use inorder to convice her coz i still lov her than anything and we are in long distance relationship,pls help me,i need her 2 be like b4 she did abortion! which nice words also can i use in order 2 appriciate me! i need ur help pls
2006-09-03 23:17:23 · 9 answers · asked by kijana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just tell her you still love her, and that you still care about her. It's that simple. Ask her why she's being like this to you. If she's rude about it, I'd leave her. As much as you still love her, if she's rude to you, and if she doesn't love you, there's no point of sticking around.
Good luck with her.
2006-09-03 23:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by Stevie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had some trouble understanding some of that - but an abortion is a big deal it may take her some time to get over it - I couldnt understand the part about the abortion being your fault so Im unsure if it meant because you got her pregnant or because you told her to have the abortion - in any case time might be the best thing for her. As for what to say to her - just let her know that you understand it may take her time to heal and that you will be here for her when ever she needs you.
2006-09-03 23:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Kazz♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it will ever be the same again. I mean you asked her to get an Abortion (I dont know what your reasons are) Sleeping with someone is a lot of responsibility. You should be able to take care of your partner so things like pregnancy and STD's dont happen. Try to assure her that you love her and want to work it out. It will be hard but if you want her back then do everything you can.
2006-09-03 23:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try avoiding these discussions for some time and just be friends who talk anything under the sun! Give your relationship a new direction.Talk movies, music, fun, life ...Make her feel that you will always be there for her. When the right time comes,you do not need beautiful words. Just simply talk to her and express your true feelings.
2006-09-03 23:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mooch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she believes that you forced her to have an abortion. That is heavy. It translates to -you made me kill my baby. That is a wound that could possibly never heal. Your girlfriend obviously needs counseling and you should refer to a family counseling agency or her local health department. You come across as an insensitive jerk who has no regard for her feelings. This is not about you, it is about her and her need to come to terms with her decision to end her pregnancy. Step back and allow her the time she needs to heal.
2006-09-03 23:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with her about your future life.And talk her about how much love care and affection you have on her.And try to be heave a genuine person in ur life.all the best to ur future
2006-09-03 23:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude it takes two to make a baby. remind her of that one
2006-09-03 23:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to spell!!
2006-09-04 01:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by asbratcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know if you will still love her...your soul will burn at stake with her....
that unforgivable to GOD!!!!!!
2006-09-03 23:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋