Has anyone ever broke things off because of bad personal hygene? I didnt know how bad it was till I moved in with him.I have lived here for 2 months and it is grossing me out. Yesterday he had to look at his dogs *** because he keep scooting it on the floor and he never washed his hands afterwards. Gross! He works on cars the only uses soap and touches me with those greasy hands. He has good hand cleaner to get it all off but he dosent use it all the time. I have talked to him about that but can it be good if I have to keep telling him to clean up. He has terrible breath in the morning and I tell him this yet he still tries to get in my face. Does he just keep forgetting or does he not care? Do I need to just leave or keep on his *** about this? Will he resent me for this? Help.
2006-09-03 23:13:32 · 12 answers · asked by JustAGirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well personally i think i will be at his face till he does something about it...JUst do it gently though:) If those are the only qualties that turns you off, then maybe its worth rehabilitating him..LOL..
2006-09-03 23:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being absent-minded is one thing, but being downright gross and inconsiderate is quite another. It sounds like you've been doing all the right things and trying to be a good communicator, and he's just not responding. No relationship is going to be successful if one partner just doesn't give a damn about at least trying to accommodate the partner's desires.
To be blunt, it sounds like your guy needs a mother, not a girlfriend. If that's your bag, then I say stick with him, but if it's not (and it doesn't sound like it is), and if all your efforts are and continue to be in vain, then I'd say it's time to deliver an ultimatum: either he start acting like a regular, relatively sanitary human being, or you're heading out the door. And if he resents you for trying to help him better himself, I'd say he's not worth your time.
2006-09-03 23:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by salihe66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
changing your t-shirt and denims is variety one. no count how sparkling you're, in case you placed on grimy fabric, you will scent like your fabric. denims could be worn max 2 cases, and you're able to alter your t-shirt conventional. while you're too lazy to bathe your cloths then take it to a dry sparkling or wash all your cloths as quickly as week. Now you're able to brush your tooth a minimum of two times an afternoon (morning and evening). Brush for 2 minutes. Shave your armpits(even even with the undeniable fact that no person sees). in case you shave, the deodorant will final longer (attempt utilising female speed stick, or teenager spirit).
2016-09-30 08:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by laseter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried about him resenting you. If he doesn't care enough about cleaning his funk he sure isn't going to care about you. I heard about a woman who broke off her wedding when she found out that the guy was rotating his dirty under ware. How much more of this can you take? Get going and don't look back.
2006-09-04 01:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just don't care about their bad hygiene manners. The only way to teach them a good lesson is to dump them for good.
2006-09-03 23:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now. Leave him a note saying why you left.
If he doesn't care about this even when you have been very blunt with him he isn't worth it.
Leave.
2006-09-03 23:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by Storm Rider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, get out of this relationship.fast
if you do not like it now , you will hate him in a year
just tell him that he stinks and unless he changes you are out
help him change :remind to clean up,brush his teeth,etc , do it for a month or so and if he would not change ...let it go and move out
2006-09-03 23:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by Know_it_all 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him. He won't change and it will gross you out for the rest of your life.
2006-09-04 01:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds really gross. A person should care about how clean/dirty/stinky they are, if he doesn't, I don't see what you can do about it.
2006-09-03 23:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he won't change until he believes there is a problem.
you should get out, really.
hopefully he will clean up his act for the next one.
2006-09-04 00:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋