I haven't been intimate with my husband for several reasons. I have been having these erotic dreams about my first boyfriend (I was 20 at the time). I haven't seen him in 7 years. Should I feel guilty?
2006-09-03 22:36:32 · 5 answers · asked by xicka 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's sad to hear of the lack of intimacy in your relationship, and maybe if you deal with these issues you'll discover why you are dreaming of a past love
It sounds like you are craving what you are lacking in this relationship and it is a quality your past love had. Is it?
Talk to your husband (no need to bring up the erotic dream of the past love) but it is telling you of something you are missing, craving and wanting
for as long as you hold off talking, the longer you have to wait to get what you have desires for
Is it the past lover or what he gave you?
Have a think about the dream, many conceal within encrpyted images, yet messages for you to pick up.
Fantasy is good, and it can help many couples to spice up their love life, maybe the fantasing is just that- a longing for some spice...I don't know, but deep inside of you, you do so go looking and do some talking with the hubby
Good luck and God Bless xxx
2006-09-03 22:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by WW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for a second... it is natural to have erotic dreams dear ..the guys do the same....
2006-09-03 22:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's normal to fanatize, it doesn't mean you are cheating on your husband.
2006-09-03 22:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ocean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not wrong. It is perfectly natural.
2006-09-03 22:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by afrprince77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL YEAH
2006-09-03 22:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by mechieshd@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋