I really don't know exactly what i want. i want to be a wife and have babies and do preschool and daycare... should i just not waste my money on college?
2006-09-03 22:34:57 · 14 answers · asked by Dakota Country Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
For your own good.
2006-09-03 22:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! you havent been in the real world have you? It maybe hard sometimes to decide on what you may want in life but you have to think about the important things such as how would you support yourself in the long run? Some women have that mentality that they're going to be house wives and raise a **** load of kids.. but then they dont realize that they're not doing anything for themselves. Having an education can take you a long way. If you dont have money to fund it you can always get financial aid. Why stay home and not take advantage of the education that is offered.... when you can go out in the real world and make something out of yourselve and compete with everyone else. How is going to college wasting money??? I feel that college is an investment..it all pays off at the end... You might regret this in the long run. In the job market now, most jobs require a degree... if you do not have one you;re some what screwed unless you wanna work at Mc Donalds for the rest of your life.?? THINK ABOUT IT!whats holding you back?
2006-09-04 05:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by im_a_goofy_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push having the whole children idea yet. Are you going to handle some sleepless nights and just when you get the child to sleep that's been crying and screaming all night and you have no time to shower and you have to rush to work on no sleep, all this being done without losing your temper, after all it's not the child's fault it's in this world. There are so many other factors that go with being a parent, how will you get a decent job to pay for the preschool and day care , first how will you pay for the birth, the clothes, food, diapers, doctor bills?. What if the child is born retarded, no one expects that. Make your decision wisely not based on hormones.
2006-09-04 07:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by J P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in college. Your knowledge and training in the field you pursue will open more doors for you as well as show future lenders, employers, etc. that you are hard-working, dedicated, and responsible. You want to open your own daycare or teach preschool? You definitely need to go to college to even be certified to teach preschool. Figure out your life while going to school. Having kids when you have no idea what you are looking for in life will just make things a living hell for you later. Hell, now days you need a BA just to flip burgers at McDonald's!!!!!
2006-09-04 05:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lonewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going to college is not a waste of money..Its a fall back in case later on you want a career of your own.
2006-09-04 05:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're certain about what you want then do it. Be true to yourself whenever you make decisions and you'll never have regrets. Things don't always work out the way you expect but if you know you made the right decision at that time.
2006-09-04 05:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want it now, trust me, you will want to have a college degree 20 years into your marriage. I know a lot of older people who go back to school. Just get your degree now and get it over with.
2006-09-04 05:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by Oguz Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're really not passionate about something why do it. I didn't want to go to college so I didn't and turned out just fine. If I went I knew I'd flunk out because I would've focused on everything except my work.
2006-09-04 05:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by hot ice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should "waste" your money in college cause in the end, if you go to college, you will get that money back because you will have more job oportunities which will lead you to more money!
2006-09-04 05:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by Kim L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your career is finished n you r atisfied with work n also have sufficient money with you or your future then go ahead n if u r working dont leave ur job or work n go ahead with marriage
2006-09-04 05:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by ejaitly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least get a degree and study first. Then you think about other things to do.
2006-09-04 05:37:28 · answer #11 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋