i am supposed to be in another country tomorrow, to be with the man i love. but i cant go, i cant afford to go and also something is holding me back and i know there have been other women. all i know is i cant go but i find it so hard to say that it's over with him. i never loved anyone as much as him. he doesn't understand.
2006-09-03 22:26:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I can understand what your feeling ...I followed my gut and came to meet my on line love ... there was many ups and downs .. he was not the same as he was on line ...BUT I not only found a love but my best friend also ...
I am now living in Australia ... we have been married 5 years ...
Do what you have to do .. Its not the end of the world it only feels that way at present
2006-09-03 23:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts like hell. It's never easy but if you're having second thoughts, just sit down and listen to your instincts. If something is holding you back then it might not be the right time. He may be the right person, but might not be the right time to get up and leave everything to be with him.
If he really loves you, then he will be feeling the same way you are feeling right now and hopefully he will get up and go to you and pick you up to be with him. Then that's probably the time the you will know what is really best.
2006-09-04 05:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by Beachy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow what your intuition is telling you.do not jump into a decision when you exacly know that it's no good.call him and tell him it's over than spending much money and wasting too much time eventhough you know it won't work..if he doesn't understand don't look back.better get on than thinking of what he might just say.think of yourself than fooling on and on because of your fears..
2006-09-04 05:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by ~cara~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts, if your mind and body are telling you NO, then maybe its time to listen. Good luck on your decision
2006-09-04 05:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him straight out basically everything you have written here and if he still doesn't understand tell him its his problem because your done explaining...
2006-09-04 05:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
better face him once and finish the issue. Dont get afraid and hide.
2006-09-04 05:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying No is hard, but do it and you will be the stronger and wiser for it.
2006-09-04 08:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he love you? If he loves you too then why the hesitation?
2006-09-04 05:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your gut tells you to
2006-09-04 05:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by sleepwalker69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋