IHe also uses to threaten and warn them for not talking to me. I left all my friends for him. Now again after marriage, he started same. Once on phone I was talking to my collogue for this he fight with me saying that what is the difference between him and my collogue. Once I went to the dr. with him, the doctor gave me an injection and gave the empty syringe to me to take it to home, for this also he started complaining and saying that how dare u to take syringe with smile. He also ask about the past that why I spoke to that person. I explained him every thing but he still digs the past. Once In a day he says I want to suicide, and also beat up his head on the floor and wall. Plz…………… help me
2006-09-03 21:32:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you both need marriage counselling, your husband has some serious personality problems which aren't going to get better with time. Try to communicate with him, avoid having male friends if that makes him so jealous and be supportive of him. But never let him abuse you in any form, you don't deserve that.
2006-09-03 21:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by DrSH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has can got an serious problem if u love him very much then u will never leave him take him to a good cycatrist make some counseling about his doubts the he will be ok and if u give him more love even if he hurts u this will also be a good medicine for him.But u should take him to a doctor.
2006-09-03 22:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by valu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your now husband has some serious problems. His actions are classic stalker,, suicide/murder, gotta be real, actions, at the start. You should move out (Really) (Really) (Really) right away w/o telling him and let him know that if he wants a relationship in the future, he needs to complete about 6 mos (Really) of counseling, and then another 4-6 mos with you. It will only get worse, if the problem isn't taken care of., Really.
2006-09-03 21:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage replaced into first instituted via GOD in Genesis 2:18-24 (the first wedding ceremony ceremony). This, of direction, contains Adam and Eve -- the actually 2 human beings latest on the time. So marriage is a corporation ORDAINED via GOD with the first actual human beings in life. The historic previous of God does no longer commence with Jesus, ya comprehend . . . .
2016-12-06 08:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by estey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love this person u would have called a Doctor to ensure he's not ill...u can't handle this situation on ur own....
U love him yes? then u must have found moments where he listened to u and showed u lots of love? Use that time to find out why or what u can do to help him...Tell him u would like him to be happy and u get hurt when he is sad. Tell him in a calm voice and ask him if he cares for u...if he does then ask him why he treats u badly...Tell him life should be happy and full of love.
Sometimes, marriages go through a difficult time but not all through the years....u need to understand the seriousness of this...do u want to suffer like this for the rest of ur life?
Ensure u don't have any kids yet to prevent any heart ache and pain later in the kids life...
U need to get extra support from family bcus this can not be sorted out on ur own. BE BRAVE!!! people respect u more when u be honest and ask for help....
I feel u don't have alot of confidence and you have put alot of pressure on ur self.
I can understand that this may be difficult bcus u have had a love marriage and others may blame u for making the choice to marry this man....others may not help u now..
But...u need to respect urself and stand up to sort this out. No-one is perfect in this world and u r not to blame.
It sounds like he is suffering from some sort of depression or mental breakdown...u need to get him checked out by a Dr as soon as u can.
Don't be afraid bcus this is not ur fault...don't be afraid to ask for help and try to keep talking to him...in a calm voice.
Sometimes a loved one treats the person they love the most badly simply because they r afraid they may lose them...they r scared to be lonely.. Has someone in his past treated him badly? Has someone in the family suffered with marriage problems? U need to talk more and spend more time with him....u need to give him ur time. Is he paranoid from what goes on outside in the world?
U need to think up some sentences to explain why he is important to u...
He is a very unhappy man and sometimes men find this very hard to admit bcus they can be seen as weak.
U need to love urself and give urself enough respect to be brave. U don't deserve to live a life like this and he should not make u feel like a prisoner.....
People can say what they like....its ur life and ur future we need to worry about...
What do you think? Don't u deserve a quality life?
Good luck and i hpe things work out for u...
2006-09-05 02:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear please take your husband to doctor for proper counselling.Don't force him. Try to be bit friendly. Before marriage you needed to be clear about both of you but as it is now over try to do the best in a soft way.
2006-09-03 22:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by kkk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,he sounds like a controlling & abusive
man!!! You poor lady!!!
It only gets worse,but you must get some
help and don't let him take away all your
confidence and friends.
you may email me: slappingfox@yahoo.com
2006-09-03 21:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds very insecure and abusive ... he wont change unless he wants to change. seek mariage counselling and if no positive changes occur, get out of the relationship ... abusiveness escalates ... you also sound very insecure ... the bottom line is you need to do something to help yourself. .. try going to a women's shelter ... they have counsellors and legal assistance if you need it
2006-09-03 21:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is having some problem contact a doctor.
2006-09-03 21:35:02 · answer #9 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why on earth did you married him? he is already behaving like that and you still wanna go ahead and marry him, and now you wanna complain and ask for help? only god can help you.
wake up woman!
sometimes i wonder why some girls are just so naive.
2006-09-03 21:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by (coco) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋