2006-09-03 20:34:23 · 18 answers · asked by HeartsBreaker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and what do u do if u really like her ? :..(
2006-09-03 20:35:09 · update #1
Don't be too needy. After you've called a couple of times and she's ignored your calls and messages give up. She will loose all respect for you if you pursue her and she continues to ditch you. She may be trying to play a little hard to get, but if you allow her to do this for too long, then you risk loosing your cool and looking insecure. Nothing is more of a turn-off than an insecure needy guy, so let her make the next move before you do anything. If she doesn't, you'll just have to move on. You certainly don't want someone who doesn't want you. Girls talk, so leave with your self-respect.
2006-09-03 20:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once she stops answering your calls, she's not your girlfriend any more. You could write her ONE note, asking her to talk to you if there was something you did that hurt her feelings. After that, if she doesn't respond, don't waste your time on someone if her feelings aren't mutual. Life's to short to be hanging around like a puppy waiting for someone to change their mind about you.
2006-09-03 20:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by Danger, Will Robinson! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, call her one more time, if she dont answer leave a message to let her know how you feel about her, then stop calling, she will call you if it was ment to be, believe me by my personal experience thats what I had to do to my husband so he can have time to think about what he really wanted and he chose me
2006-09-03 20:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by linder_420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her why she stopped answering your calls and messages. Communicate with her via e-mail, chat, call her, send an SMS- do all possibly human to let her know you were wondering whatever happened.... or you are getting worried...is it something you did? or something else or she found out something? or what? Communicate ....communicate...communicate otherwise you will just end up wondering- yunesa@yahoo.com
2006-09-03 20:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by yunesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all deepened on how much to been trying. like doing to much messages or calls then forget about it. mostly then she lost interest on you that you act like a kid. if you don't do to much then that she know that you are not interest in her.
the best i can tell you is to stop for a while then see what happen. can not tell you if it is good or bad until time will tell
2006-09-03 20:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by jwtaz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there ,there is nothing worse than when this happens ,but for youre own sake stop this is going to hurt a bit ,but let it go and she will get in contact if and when she wants to ,this is messing with you head and its not fair on you or her ,if you have to send her another message then tell her that youre there for her when she needs you ,and give a break and give youre self time to sort youre head out and get over this i hope you find a bit of happiness ,takecare xx
2006-09-03 20:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the 2nd call. Give her a day or two to respond...then consider yourself single.
2006-09-03 20:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long it takes you to Get the hint and move on or your gonna look really pathetic.
2006-09-03 20:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have given up before now. More fish in the ocean. Start again.
2006-09-03 20:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by starrynight1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
after praying.
you stop trying if your prayers don't get an answer either!
2006-09-03 20:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by MV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋