just wondering if anyone knows what to say to a friend going through such crap
2006-09-03 20:27:39 · 7 answers · asked by Lifeisahighway29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell her you'll be there for her if she needs you.
2006-09-03 20:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't say anything to make her feel better. The best thing you can do is just be there for her and really listen. No matter what you do, don't go bad mouthing her ex, even if she does. Remember, they may get back together so you don't want to say a bunch of bad stuff. That might ruin your friendship. The best thing for you to do is to think about how you would want someone to treat you if you were the one that just got dumped. That should help a lot. Good luck to both of you.
2006-09-03 20:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by Vicm0322 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell Her not to despair because it will be OK. Tell her the sun never sets forever. It will be daylight soon.
And sing her this song...
MICHAEL BOLTON
When I'm Back On My Feet Again
Gonna break from these chains around me
Gonna learn to fly again
May be hard, may be hard
But I'll do it
When I'm back on my feet again
Soon these tears will all be dryin'
Soon these eyes will see the sun
Might take time, might take time
But I'll see it
When I'm back on my feet again
When I'm back on my feet again
I'll walk proud down that street again
And they'll all look at me again
And they'll see that
I'm strong
Gonna hear the children laughing
Gonna hear the voices sing
Won't be long, won't be long
Till I hear them
When I'm back on my feet again
Gonna feel the sweet light of heaven
Shining down its light on me
One sweet day, one sweet day
I will feel it
When I'm back on my feet again
And I'm not gonna crawl again
I will learn to stand tall again
No I'm not gonna fall again
Cos I'll learn to be strong
Soon these tears will all be dryin'
Soon these eyes will see the sun
Won't be long, won't be long
Till I see it
When I'm back on my feet again
When I'm back on my feet again
I'll be back on my feet again
2006-09-03 20:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by tomwaterboy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When she's feeling better, tell her that you'll take her out to find a decent man!
2006-09-03 20:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by cheeky_beth_62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to sleep and eat a lot...
No no no ... i wasn't joking. Both activities creates a joyful and easy feeling...
2006-09-07 03:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she's not the one for him, and more importantly he's not the one for her! She deserves someone better.
And of course let her know that you're always there for her.
2006-09-03 20:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by beetee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if me i will tell that the positive why do they break up.....
there must be a story behind this.. so make them relise what had they done...
2006-09-03 20:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by spechugurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋