2006-09-03 20:15:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all congratulations! How exciting...Ok, here it goes from a married woman of fourteen years...Always keep communication open, he may not always agree with you or want to hear what you have to say, but there is no room for resentment in a healthy marriage. Always show your spouse respect, treat them kindly and be respectful of their differences. Be honest, doubt is a marriage killer. And last but certainly not least...be generous. Be generous with your time and with your love. Good luck to you and your fiance, I wish you a long happy life together.
2006-09-03 20:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember >>>>1. Don't let the financial burdens that can come after a wedding pull you down. 2. Your husband is now priority in your life and is your immediate family, therefore treat him as that. 3. Not that women should be seen and not heard, but sometimes we need to just listen more and not always jump to be heard. 3. Enjoy, Enjoy, Enjoy and don't let the stress before the wedding and the little details that may or may not have gotten taken care of stress you out.
If you haven't gotten your bouquet. Sam's club does a great job of arranging roses for you and hand tieing them.
2006-09-04 05:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by erotic_songbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be best friends...friendship gets you thru the toughest times. Also, and this is a VERY important one...he cannot read your mind! So do not use that whole "well if he really knew me he'd know what was wrong with me" routine that women use....it doesn't work, he has no clue what you are thinking. Just come right out and tell him. It's not what you say, it's how you say it. Communication is the key.
2006-09-04 08:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, be willing to compromise. Always to little things to keep the feeling of love in the air.(ex: write a I love you note and put it in his car. so when he get is his car he will see it.) Think for your partner as your Friend for life and you will die for that person. You will be fine. Even when you have your rough day don't think about cheating, or doing something you will regret. hope this helps you.
2006-09-04 08:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Lori K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't expect him to change and suddenly become more caring and helpful... they don't- I think people have wild expectations and then disappointment causes problems later. learn to love and accept him in all ways- and try to see the things that he does to show his love for you instead of looking for the things that you want for him to do-- for example when guys fix things for you such as a lightbulb, sink, or change the oil in your car these are their way of showing they care. we women usually also expect the cards, and dinner and roses which are more superficial - think about it- it really takes more effort to fix things than it would to pick up a card and dinner (even if men don't care they can do these things) .. it's a long hard road- but well worth it...Good luck and congratulations!
2006-09-04 03:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah don't! take your time and see your options. plenty of time to commit to one for your entire life. make certain he/she is the one for life. no one can turn your head or ever cause you to feel you need anything outside the marriage. if you be certain of this, then marry in two weeks. otherwise don't.
2006-09-04 04:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by william j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, don't count on your wedding night to be the best night of your life. You're bound to be exhausted. And no fooling around.
2006-09-04 03:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You left 2 weeks to have as many flings you can have then...enjoy
2006-09-04 03:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by alan99678 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray Pray Pray.....Have strong communication and trust, make sure you two still date each other and also make sure you give each other "by yourself time" Good luck!
2006-09-04 03:19:27 · answer #9 · answered by its just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont run away when times get hard cuse times will get hard all u have to do i work through them and things will be fine
2006-09-04 04:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by armyengineer296462003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋