It just seems so routine, and I am not that attracted to my wife anymore. We have had sex 6 times and she just doesn't do it for me anymore. Has anybody else gotten bored of their spouse?
We were together for 7 weeks before we got married.
Should I leave?
2006-09-03 19:57:45 · 22 answers · asked by Lothario 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You've totally brought it upon yourself. You can never really know anyone after 7 weeks. You seem very impulsive. Normally I would say to try to work it out, but you appear too immature for marriage anyway. The one I feel sorry for is her, not you. I think SHE should leave YOU. Anyone that meets, marrys and discards someone in 9 weeks is very sad.
2006-09-03 20:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by lillyflower 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My gosh, why the hell did you marry her! U only new her for 7 weeks before hand? No wonder u dont want to stay with her. Your a perfect example of a bad spouse. U dont go into marriage unless your sure your making the right decision.
Ive been with my partner for 5 years and still see him for the beautiful man that he is sexualy, physically and mentally. Of course not everyone can be like this, but come on! You had to know you were making a wrong decision to marry if you only new her for 7 weeks. Divorce her and dont make the same mistake again. It hurts too many ppl by playing love games like that.
2006-09-03 20:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by gr33n_3y3d_grrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all think abt this before u just decide on ending things. Why did u stay together for 7 weeks before u got married? what was it that made u have a relationship with her in the first place? why did u get married? what made u do that? And if u think things aren't working out, talk to yr wife abt it. May be she too may have an opinion on whats going on. This question that u have asked should be discussed with yr wife....... talk to her first n see. After that u can decide what u want to do......Good luck and i hope u guys work things out.
2006-09-03 20:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by reality7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So how often is it that a woman has a child for you in less than two months?
In your other questions you have created this web of scenarios, and I wonder if you aren't just some psycho man living to get a rise out of folk.
Were this true, this question, then I'd have to say she's blessing you with her body because you're insensitive, you're an asshole, and you obviously have issues.
I mean, you think she's obese, you're obviously not monogamous, you're a complete slackass in the brain, and you spread your entire marriage out on Yahoo for everyone to see and pick apart.
Mind you, I feel horrid for your "wife" if you indeed have one, I hope she gets a fat alimony check from you, on top of child support.
2006-09-05 20:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dark_Lady_Kizanth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one,more so because it is personal.In my opinion,you should stay.Try to add spice to your relationship,try to make it work.The problem with most of us is that we fall into a routine after marriage.PLEASE talk to her and let her know how you are feeling,she is a woman,she runs deeper than you think,she might be feeling the same way....If you leave,you will be doing so much damage to the young woman and yourself..Please be patient and speak to your wife...Boredom is normal,but you can work right round it!Your short courtship could be one of many reasons,but it's now in the past,look to the future,I really pray you work this out.All the best....
2006-09-03 20:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by L'ilwu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were stupid to marry after just 7 weeks. It is not a nice thing to say and I am not judging you. We all make hasty decisions some time in our lives that we regret later.
Your best option is to leave now. Leave while there are no kids yet. The longer you wait the more difficult it is going to become to leave and the more you are going to hurt her.
Good luck and God bless
2006-09-03 20:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by robsnor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even A Car does not run on its own! A marriage will work only if both of you give atry to make it work! It is the mental satisfaction, getting involved into each other's interest, Caring, Sharing, Playing, doing things to please each other matters. A Marriage is not only for sex! Sex can be purchased, Love can not be!
2006-09-03 20:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey bud you have got to be the dumbest guy in town, seven weeks and you got married???? WHY???? you don't love her, you don't even care about her... I Hope for both you sake's there's not a KID on the way......be smart let her go so she can find a real man..... and as for you, don't ever think that seven weeks is long enough to get to know someone. don't even think about getting married until you have been dating for 2 years or more. grow up dude......
2006-09-03 20:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her she needs to learn some knew tricks in the bed because she is just not doing it for you any more. But no you should not leave because you never know she might just prove you wrong. In mariges you are suposed to be open and honest with her that might help. 7 weeks is way to early to be thinking about mariage. Go with what your heart is telling you and hopefuly it will lead you to do the right thing.
2006-09-03 20:03:32 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
marraige is about working through the rough times... but you shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. You obviously weren't ready. You're doomed if you're bored after 2 weeks.
2006-09-03 20:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by sarah_lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋