2006-09-03 19:53:47 · 15 answers · asked by ajcarter000 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Uh no.....What you need to do is take a course in Logic 101.....
2006-09-03 20:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are already pregnant the question should be; what should I do when I give birth to this baby, can I raise him/her myself or give him/her up for adoption? Find some local support in your community. Rely on family and friends for support through this. He may not want to be in the child's life, but he by law has to pay child support. Be strong you will get through this. Good Luck
If you are not pregnant then the question should be; why would I want to sleep with a man who does not love me? Or, why would I want to take a risk of becoming pregnant when I am not sure how I feel about it?
2006-09-03 20:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to that question! Having a child out-of-wedlock is never in the best interest of the child. If the child could answer your question, he/she would want to be conceived by a loving mother and father who are devoted to the child's lifetime welfare. Anything less is a disservice to the child forever. Moreover, the life of a single mom with a bastard child is absolutely miserable for her and the child's life. Don't be stupid!
2006-09-03 20:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Not unless you want to be a single mother or want to risk having to deal with a father who may or may not be interested. You can NOT make a man love you by having his child. That never works. It might trap a man into staying around but you and your possible child deserve a man who wants to be there, not one who feels resentful about getting roped into it.
2006-09-03 19:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by rp_player_girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are already pregnant then keep the baby, but next time do not have sex with a man unless you are married.
2006-09-03 20:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you are fully prepared mentally, emotionally, and financially for raising a child. I'd also suggest having some sort of a father figure in the picture whether it is the sperm donor or a good friend.
2006-09-03 19:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by Diana C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF YOU HAVE TO ASK THAT QUESTION THEN I BELIEVE YOU KNOW THE ANSWER!
DONT HAVE A CHILD TO TRY AND KEEP SOMEONE AROUND BECAUSE IT WILL NOT WORK.
WHAT WOULD BE THE REASON YOU WOULD EVEN THINK OF HAVIN A BABY BY A PERSON THAT SHOWS NO INTEREST IN YOU WHAT-SO-EVER {EXCEPT MAYBE SEX}. THINK OF YOURSELF FIRST----IS THIS WHAT YOU REALLY WANT FOR YOURSELF?
2006-09-07 18:43:01 · answer #7 · answered by msbrandnew02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you're already pregnant, than think about what would be best for you and the child and what you can live with.
IF you're not pregnant, keep your pants on and move on...
Giving in to someone just to make them stay around is foolhardy and risky.
2006-09-03 19:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by coorissee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you but just remember its not just you and him. Think about the child that is going to be born. It might grow up and not have a dad while everyone else does think about it
2006-09-03 19:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by tmrcx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not honey
2006-09-03 19:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋