Every time when my boyfriend and I sleep together, if we do it like 3-4 times, that last time I always have to masterbate, it just take my breath away and he can't stand it. How can I make him understand that it has nothing to do with him, and that my hand just puts me over the edge!!!
2006-09-03 19:37:49 · 15 answers · asked by DSPARKLE 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nothing wrong with you-- its just he feels inadaquate---just tell him ,he gets you so hot that you have to.
Damn you are one hot woman----take my breath away
2006-09-03 19:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you should get creative with that. Try and have him joining you while you do it. Let him watch you while you master- bate..it's such an erotic thing. I understand why he gets up set, it's because he feels that you think he may not be doing his job. But let him know that he does it so good that you just have to touch yourself. But don't do it without him, ask him if he would like to watch you. Perhaps you can sit between his legs while you do it, maybe you can guide his hand and show him how you like to be touched with the hand. You can also try sitting in front of a mirror...okay, okay..my bad...lol. Enough! But seriously you should try this and see how he reacts, he just might want to join you.
2006-09-04 02:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by StormyRain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it upsets him, maybe you could not do it in front of him. I understand the feeling, and it's not that it is necessarily a better feeling that you get, but a different one. I don't do that kind of thing in front of my husband, only when he is not around because it makes him feel like he is not good enough to go to bed with, that i could get rid of him, and still be completely satisfied.
2006-09-04 02:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mayb u can juz try to do it in an erotic way in such a way tat he tot u r juz turnin him on..when i used to do it wif my ex,i always touch myself in front of him n told him to juz observe me..haha..
2006-09-04 02:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by doll_eyes_81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really understand ur question but i just want to tell u there is nothing wrong with u.
2006-09-04 02:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by rm38358 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know your body better than anyone,,try and let him be a part of it,guide him along gl â¥
2006-09-04 02:43:29 · answer #6 · answered by ridingthestorm_out 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is an insult to him he has done it for 3,4 times and then it looks like you haven't been satisfied...
2006-09-04 02:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teach him how to use his hand.
2006-09-04 03:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you.
2006-09-04 02:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by madamesophia1969 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe that he doesn't like it.
2006-09-04 02:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by jeff b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋