my wife of 8 years thought sense i was a man the only thing i wanted was sex. But, after working 12 hours a day all i wanted was a nice quite place to relax.she thought the kids should nrver be around me just her so we could have sex every day and night. I wanted some time with the kids to play with or just hear how thier day was. So i put her out now she wants to come back.what should i do? we still fight and me and the kids can talk and i am really getting to know them like a dad should.
2006-09-03 19:33:15 · 4 answers · asked by tabdaddy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe she doesn't think that, being a man, you only want sex. maybe she wants it that much. like an addiction type thing. look into it. sex addictions are hard to recognize. about your kids, spend as much time with them as you can and do whatever it takes to be a good father. you only have one chance to watch your kids grow and and get to know them. don't take it for granted.
2006-09-03 19:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Brittany B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn the curse of the nympho wife.. do u realize how many man are thinking damn ur a stupid azz lol .. What should u do, if u love her u work it out, compromiseeeeeeeeeeee huge key to a marriage.. and in order to that, u have to not only achieve what u want but give her what she wants as well.. give and take, maybe set up time for just u and her.. .. she obviously loves u, and for women its not just about the physical side of sex, but the emotional side that we crave, we need to feel loved, wanted, desired and its what makes us feel good about ourselves knowing our man still adores us in that way.. but she has to share ur time and u need to get that acrossed to her in order for this to work, reassurance of how u feel about her will also do the trick not just always sex.. if u want this to work , then it can work but u both have to work on this together.. and i think if u still love ur wife then its what is best for your kids as well but dont rush back to soon as your kids cant handle an on again off again marriage, so court her again, take it slow see where it goes, see if i cant work.. get a babysitter take her out on dates, and try, if it doesnt work nothing really changes, but if it does u have ur COMPLETE family back..
2006-09-03 19:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys complain why their wives lost interest in sex. You should consider yourself lucky as your wife is still "hot" for you after 8 years. All you need is good time management for your kids, your wife and yourself.
2006-09-03 19:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by lette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why mess up a good thing.....
2006-09-03 19:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by Debbie_in_Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems you know more about being a parent than her dont change. my opion?
2006-09-03 19:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋