SHE LIKES GOING OUT ALL THE TIME WITH HER FRIENDS
2006-09-03 18:47:33 · 12 answers · asked by JOE Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Seek some counselling.
2006-09-03 18:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want her back if she goes out with her friends and has moved out? That says a lot, she enjoys being around them more than with you, and as a girl myself I can tell you that when women go out together they get a lot of attention from other men, so maybe that is what she wants. Marriage is about commitment. It is probably harder to let go than I imagine, but think about your future and your children if any, and if you don't have kids yet better to get out now. Maybe there is someone better for you both out there, and probably you are not ready to accept it since it's hard to see it when you are both in love.
2006-09-03 18:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by powerdiva411 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i was going to just suggest the book 'the dance of anger' to help resolve some conflict for you. but then i read that she likes going out all the time w/her friends and decided maybe there's more to it than meets the eye. is this her first marriage and how old is she? did she all of the sudden like going out w/friends or just when yuo all started having trouble. i think so many times people get married not knowing the committment involved. she may just want to still have fun and not be mature enough to be in a marriage. people in marriages and everyone for that matter has to realize that we are not put on the earth just for our own satisfaction but to serve others, our spouses and our families. you might want to deepen your spiritual faith and/or find someone else who will do the same. not much data to work with. hope that helps. but that book 'dance of anger' is great for all couples. i
2006-09-03 18:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by paradengszosnjs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, U gave no details on why the relationship fell apart, which is a "key" issue! But what I always did 2 get my man back is give
them SPACE!! Give them all the space they need!! Do some things 2 keep U'rself occupied--NOT-- other women, but things that might help U get back on track. (Work more hours, work out)
Once they see that U're not blowin' up the phone anymore & beg-
gin', they'll wonder, "What's Up??" Just go about U're business
& be polite if/when she calls U. Sound witt it, 2-gether. U'll get it.
2006-09-03 18:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by MILKSHAKE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever heard the expression "if you love something set it free if it doesn't come back it was never meant to be"
take note.....if your wife likes to go out with her friends....goddamit let her!! remember she's your wife not your child...you can't tell her not to go out...i know myself that if someone tried to tell me i couldn't do something i wouldn't listen.. of course there should be compromise where sometimes she stays home with you or goes out with you instead of her friends....just give her the space she needs......stop arguing with her......even if she starts it...DON"T react .......when things calm down a little why not suggest marriage counselling to her??? it might work......or maybe you two just aren't meant for each other.....either way it's life...and you'll deal with whatever the outcome is...good luck !
2006-09-03 18:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll like to answer these kind of question when they are complete, but in most of these questions, the word children is missing. Remember that in a marriage with children, the kids are more important.
So if you have any, my advice would be different than the one first came to my mind,
2006-09-03 18:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try marriage counseling, if she is willing. But are you sure she hasn't already moved on? All you can do is try and if it doesn't work out then at least you know that you tried to keep your marriage together. Good Luck sweetie
2006-09-03 18:56:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes going out with her friends. more then likely shes getting dick from some dude. If shes on the heavy side she is defiantly getting the cock because you know fat girls always get ****** and the end of the night
2006-09-03 19:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by Osummer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a bad sign unfortunatly. going out, arguing, moved out. sorry to say it but she feels like she needs something else or something new. dont let her do that all by herself. two can play at this game. get out there
2006-09-03 18:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by AtreyuExs&Ohs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Convince her that you will not argue un necessarily now onwards and keep your promise
2006-09-03 18:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by singh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋