we got back together a week later but neither told me i foung out by a friend my sister went to his house who gets the blame? her for going or him for accepting
2006-09-03 18:44:30 · 17 answers · asked by goosey38 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I blame both of them. I wouldn't want to have anything to do with either of them anymore! First of all, your sister is what sounds the worst...she's family and that's just really low of her to do that with your boyfriend, whether yoo broke up with him or not! She's supposed to be one of the main people that support you through break-up because sisters are supposed to stick by each other through whatever. When she slept with him, she betrayed her own blood! Your boyfreind is also the one to blame for knowing that it was your sister he is sleeping with. That was wrong of him to accept the invitation and he should have more respect for you because he knew the problems that it could cause. Both of them need some help for doing that to you like that anad I hope you stay strong.
2006-09-03 18:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by 2thick4u 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think they both have to share the blame! Because your sister should never have slept with your boyfriend even if you had broken up and the same thing goes for your boyfriend he should not have slept with your sister at all broken up or not! And they should have been honest with you and told you when you were gonna get back with your boyfriend so at least you could have made an informed decison about weather to get back with him or not!
2006-09-03 18:52:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is nothing compared to your sister, she should show you more respect and the only reason it happened is because she may be little jealous of you.. don't be to mad because you and your sis should stick to to gather for ever and don't let some man break that sister bond you shear....
2006-09-03 19:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by squishie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blame your sister for not being supportive of you. Blame her for not at least asking you first on how you would feel if she would sleep or be with him. You can't blame him but you can dump him for good this time.
2006-09-03 18:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by steve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur sister. the relationship between u and ur sister is far stronger than that between you and ur ex, no matter what. there are unspoken rules about things like this and for ur sister to do that shows that she doesnt respect u. i would forget the guy and try to resolve things with your sister. in the end that guy is nothing and u two are still and always will be sisters.
2006-09-03 18:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by mayami 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The sister. It's an unspoken, unwritten rule that is known by everyone. You can't take your sister's castoffs and she can't take yours. And this is why. See what happens? His part in it was kind of stupid, but blameless.
2006-09-03 18:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both, that is really disrespectful of your sister to cross that line. It would be very hard for me not to kick her a@@. Your boyfriend is a PIG! Get rid of him.
2006-09-03 18:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by cat s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both and icky, gross, why??? That against the rules of nature, dump him, Ugh i have a terrible image in my head now....
2006-09-03 19:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're both to blame
2006-09-03 18:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by cece 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HIM...ALWAYS HIM. because family is forever! it wasn't right of her....but you will never have a different older sister. work it out with her..and forget him! he sounds like a player and a jerk! you can so much better!
2006-09-03 18:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by marci_risor 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋