My Friend, Amber, who I've known since 1st grade is now acting like she doesn't know me, and its pissing me off, I mean we've grown apart ever since probably the 7th grade, but we still say hi to eachother...what the hell is her deal? (she could be embarassed to talk to me ever since there was a rumor she was pregeant and I heard about it and she's always worrying about what i think of her) but I dont know, I need a way to talk to her? what should I do? No matter what people I say, Im always gonna love her like a sis, she should know that, what am I going to do?
2006-09-03 18:44:18 · 21 answers · asked by thats_hot_097 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
All friends go through rough patches. I suggest that you visit her at her home and attempt to talk to her. Let her know that if she is going through some hard times that you are there to listen, you are her friend, "sister," and that you are always going to have a special place for her in your heart. Ask her what is wrong? Tell her you miss her friendship. Go from there. If she insists nothing is wrong, and ignores you in school/public, then you may have to back off until she comes around.
2006-09-03 18:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by adjoadjo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend Amber really cares about you, she would take the time to talk to you. If you really feel that you want to know why she's ignoring you, sit her down and talk to her. Find out why and do whatever you can to try and solve that problem. Other than that, she's not your friend and don't waste your time trying to reach out to her. You've done your part, so now it's her turn. What it all boils down to is it is up to you to decide if you want Amber to be a part of your life or not. I hope my advice helps. Good luck.
2006-09-04 01:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to call her up and tell her how you feel. (better yet, do it in person, but on the phone ...if you're really nervous..you can have an outline/notes of what you want to say..it sounds crazy but it works)
just tell her that you've been feeling like you guys have been growing apart and that you really miss the fun times you guys have been able to have together. ask her if something's wrong..or you could just say you wanna go back to being best friends..its all up to you.
no REAL friend can turn down something like that.
good luck. ;)
2006-09-04 01:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by steph(: 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go and talk to her and ask her what is her problem. tell her that if it is the rumour that she is worried abt then to be free from the stress and tell her u dont give a damn(or do you??) that might clear the problem or worsen it in either way you will have an idea of what is bothering her. you can also play that "i dont know you" game with her and get her reaction but that will be a long shot. the choice is yours.
2006-09-04 01:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by hdil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is waiting for you to make the first move. If that rumor is the problem, stop her and try to see if she will talk to you. If she doesnt want to talk, I would think that she doesnt want to be friends with you any more. If thats the case, move on and try to forget her. Good luck.
2006-09-04 01:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,
walk past her a lot but dont say a word add a little eye contact like i really dont give a shizz and make new friends kinda like a possey walk past itll drive her nutzz she will ask u watz ur deal basically act like i dont care and trust she'll star to care
much luvvv!!!!
if u have any questions or need more advice email me:
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2006-09-04 02:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by Tiarra R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her how you feel. Show her that you love her like a sis, unconditionally. Have a heart to heart, and it'll probably all work out.
2006-09-04 01:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by K S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'e been through something similair. i know how it feels. i think that if she's a "true" friend than she should at least hear what you have to say, so i think you should call her or write her a note, at least it would help you feel like you "tried" to make the situation better, and make the friendship like it used to be. i hope everything works out!
~Ashlyn~
2006-09-04 01:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to her house and put it right out there like you did to us, dont use anyone inbetween, maybe shes heard something nasty about you, maybe you like the same guy. maybe its easier to forget it all. I had a friend i shared all my troubles with , then i found out she dated 3 guys i had been dating. ill never speak to her again and that was 40 years ago.
2006-09-04 01:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be dealing with a situation that she doesn't want to talk about. Leave her alone, she'll come to you eventually.
2006-09-04 01:48:15 · answer #10 · answered by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋