I have been with this man for 17 months now....we are not married...not even engaged....We have our ups and downs.....Our main fights were because of my negativity and jealousy....but in the past month we havent had a fight because I can control it now..which i am proud of >>I thought I was on top of the world....he is a great man and i dont want to lose him....and besides that problem i am going through financial problems with work ...since ive been single everything was great.....but since i ve found him ...and now things are getting in the way of our relationship.... here i thought everything was okay until tonight.....he brought up my financial problems and my jealousy??....i dont know what he wants out of this relationship.. We are in the process of moving into together...but I dont know what he wants.... Everything was going great until tonight when he brought everything up again which i thought was in our past. i dont think he has the balls to call it quits maybe he wants me to
2006-09-03 18:32:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He tells me he wants to be with me for the rest of his life .. and that he loves me with all his heart.. I still dont know what he wants.....I am willing to change for him but he thinks that I dont care anymore when I am doing the best I can to trust him...and not be jealous...
2006-09-03 18:44:25 · update #1
I am so confused with his actions.... i cant sleep......my mind is running wild with thoughts ...
2006-09-03 18:46:52 · update #2
You might as well sit down with him and discuss everything. Truthfully though, I think he is getting cold feet and doesn't want to move in with you.
2006-09-03 18:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call it quits! If there is jealousy whether you voice it or keep it inside, then it is no good
2006-09-03 18:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by up2sumpthun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy usually arises from not trusting.read tips on relationships and love that will help you more on this site
2006-09-03 18:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him!!!
2006-09-03 18:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by babystuff6262005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋