me and my girl allways seem to fight and argue.we have been together for 13 years.i know there has to be give and take,but i think we both are to stubborn to give in.what can i do here?anybit of info is appreciated.
2006-09-03 18:28:44 · 6 answers · asked by 'HUMVEE' 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like love spats. Good for make up sex. Maybe that's the reason?
2006-09-03 18:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the fact that you have been 13 years together and she is still your Girlfriend could be part of the problem. She is probably feeling as if you don't care enough to Make her you Wife. What a relationship needs is Confidence, Respect, Trust, Honesty. If you have these or if one is missing. Then you have to revaluate yourself and the relationship to what needs to be done to fix it. In order for you to truely love and truel be loved you must have these things. Thinks about it talk it over with her and see what you both can come up with to either save it or let it go....Good luck
2006-09-04 01:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u and ur girfriend need to sit down and have a serious discussion about what u guys want to happen in the relationship
because if u guys continue on like this you'll end up hating eachother and eventually break up
if u and your girlfriend connot seem to get along communicate, u guys have nothing in common u are more enemies than friends and lover than you and her need to brewak up have a seperation spend some time apart
u need to focus on yourself now take care of u and start going out with friends find someone who will treat u kindly
2006-09-04 09:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you havent yet worked out a way to sit down once a week with issues. learn to listen to each others needs and apply it. read tips on relationships and love that will help you more on this site
2006-09-04 01:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because despite your closeness and the care you you share with each other, you're still two different and unique persons. i think that this is something that you have to appreciate and accept.
2006-09-04 02:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by john 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice question......its ur spice in ur love relationship to annoy the hell out of u.......its just love
2006-09-04 01:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋