i am happy with my wife. i just want to make her very happy.
2006-09-03 18:27:28 · 22 answers · asked by jwtaz1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How to make your wife happy?
Well, in my perspective, happiness comes from open communication & really feeling listened to. Make your wife feel like she has a REAL LIFE COMPANION... who's interested in her not just as a woman, sexual partner, spouse & mother to his children... but as a unique person.
Also, once kids are added to the picture... I know many women appreciate getting TIME-OFF for themselves. A few hours a week to pursue other interests, pamper herself, etc.
Frankly, jewelry & material presents are appreciated, but what's most important is tailoring gifts to her. Oftentimes it's not the material gifts that are important. Ask her what would make her happiest. Have her draw up a list of things/activities/new attitudes she'd like you to do. And then periodically, surprise her by doing one of them.
2006-09-03 19:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best person to pose this question to is YOUR WIFE. The answers we are all giving you are some of the things we enjoy. But, all women are different.
You can make your wife "very happy" by loving her as she is. By not parenting her like she is a child. Let her have her way with you often as possible, but, don't let her totally control your life. Each of you have to have their own things they do separate from each other..
2006-09-03 19:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As people, we can never make another individual happy. Each of us chooses to be happy. However, in a relationship, you can learn what helps your mate enjoy every day. Do the little things for no reason at all along the way and you will be pleased with the outcome.
2006-09-03 19:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit down with her and ask her right out what it is that you need to change in yourself to make her happier. If she asks you why; tell her what is on your mind.
She must be happy now if she is still with you. You must be doing something right. But as with any person there is always room for improvement.
When you get her feed back, do not get angry or upset, this is after all constructive advise.
2006-09-03 18:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her how much you love her. Make her breakfast in bed. Spend a lot of time with her. Sometimes, simple little things show you care alot, and make us happy!!
2006-09-03 18:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by MiLuv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be open, honest and able to have truthful conversations without getting mad. Give her attention and bring her flowers once in a while. Compliment her and show her affection. Let her know she's the only one for you.
2006-09-03 18:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by mommysrock 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go do what makes her happy!
2006-09-03 18:28:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aight this is the best way.....be yourself and treat her like a queen dont be dishonest tell her how you feel everyday and how she makes your world a better place. make her feel safe and loved everyday and dont take not even a minute for granted with her and you will be the best husband for her.
2006-09-03 18:32:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do little special things for her....like rubbing her feet with cream at night.....taking her coffee in bed occasionally....spend time with her and let her know that you love her and that she is special to you.....sounds like a lucky girl to me
2006-09-03 18:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by north44girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ROMANCE AND JEWELRY!! That seems to work for a lot of women.
2006-09-03 18:37:19 · answer #10 · answered by Judith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋