I went out with some co-workers of mine to a bar. When closing time came, one of my female co-workers asked if she could follow me, because it's on the way to where she lives and she gets lost easily. I gave her directions on how to get to where she lives, but she still wanted to follow me. Reluctantly, I said she could. When we got to the city she wanted to get to, I turned onto the road I live on and hoped she would keep going strait. Instead she followed me home. It kind of creeped me out. I was tired, wanted to go to sleep, and I wanted her to leave. Then she got out of her car and started asking me all these personal questions about me. I really didn't know her very well, but I kind of answered her prying questions. I wanted her to leave, but I didn't want to be rude. She ended up staying till sunrise before leaving, when I had to be at work at 9:30am. WTF? Would you consider this stalking and how would you get her to leave? I don't want her or want to be with her in any way.
2006-09-03 18:23:32 · 5 answers · asked by Stranger in a Strangeland 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't know about stalking - YET. But, she is weird and desperate. You should not have answered her questions. If she does start stalking you, tell her to leave you alone. If she persists, then call the police. Stalking is illegal. You need to be more assertive. You could have told her you had to work and said "Goodnight" and walked away.
2006-09-03 18:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, stalking involves watching from a distance. This was just good old-fashioned rudeness.
2006-09-04 01:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Plain and Simple 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you have to get up and go to work say good-night and go inside. No she didn't stalk you. You could tell her your flattered by her attention, but your just not interested in her. Just be truthful.
2006-09-04 01:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the same day you met the Easter Bunny and Santa Claus?
2006-09-04 01:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by sixpakforsure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently she's offerin' steak to a vegetarian.
2006-09-04 01:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by wupierto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋