I mean i know opposites attract but i mean they talk about looks don't matter and that girls(the ones they date) are fake, but they just end up dating them, it gets me mad. I mean the girls they date don't do anything or listen or into everything they are into its dumb and it pisses me off. why do you do this guys? its just makes me(because i can't speak for all ladies) mad because i would never get to date the guys i like and are into what i'm into becasue they are dating other girls.
2006-09-03 18:10:56 · 11 answers · asked by mary sue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
time for you to ask guys out for dates.
simple solution.
2006-09-03 18:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do the same thing.
But really do you want a guy who from the start falls madly in love with you and you can't get rid of him? You only want to date and check him out but you know if you do he will cling on you like glue. Guys will date a party gal way before they will date a keeper. Most poeple when datting are looking for just that.. A date and sex if they can get it.
Maybe the guys just know you will not put out and that you will cling to them.
2006-09-03 18:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably comes maximum quickly from the Courtly Love convention of the Jacobean/Elizabethan circumstances, and the patriarchal society of the time. I say this through fact in the previous this i've got faith it rather is in keeping with risk that the objectification of girls human beings became probably plenty extra advantageous, nevertheless i might desire to be incorrect, and the guy would possibly not inevitably have had to ask the girl quickly, for occasion. As for why this form of patriarchal society might have stepped forward, it would desire to be be through previous testomony, the place Adam got here first, Eve took the apple, etc, nevertheless that doesn't sufficiently clarify the presence in different societies. it would desire to have stepped forward from organic origins, easily you might even see parallels between the Courtly Love convention and the behaviour of those species the place a male tries to electrify the female with reflects of potential or aggression, staggering colors, heady scent or music. it could even have stepped forward from the function of the alpha male in some animal communities, especially modern-day among primates. i'm afraid i'm in simple terms speculating right here, although, and have no thought. Regardless, although, present day circumstances are diverse. This technology's women human beings are in simple terms as probably to ask adult males out than vice versa in my opinion. there is an probability that many of the classic roles linger in those form of relationship rituals for even though reason, through non-public and intimate nature of the undertaking, perhaps, which will gradual progression. save your chin up besides nevertheless, rejection isn't some thing unique to the masculine, you realize.
2016-11-24 20:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello mary sue,
Yes, you found out the truth that guys were afraid that you would find out. Looks DO matter. Guys are very visual and they go after the hot looking (although totally fake) girls.
So if you want those guys, you will need to dress and act just like those same girls that are able to get those guys or come up with your own ways of attracting them.
Good luck.
--Rick
2006-09-03 18:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This behaviour is typical in young guys which they quickly outgrow, trust me I've heard time and time that dating fake looking bimbo chicks gets real old real quick. Guys like women who are a challenge, who are fun and intelligent. Don't worry, they'll soon grow out of that phase.
2006-09-03 18:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by aliisdisturbed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girls these guys date are smokin hot, its called lust and luck (for getting the chance to date these girls) I myself am at a cross road at love and lust. the only reason these guys are dating these bitches are because they want to get in their pants.
2006-09-03 18:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by luke14parker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause they want a arm piece n they might put out within a month.
2006-09-03 18:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by Sozay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just jealous of girls who get more dates than you. Sorry that you're so fugly that no guy would even want to rape you.
2006-09-03 18:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by Take That 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They just wanna get laid dude
2006-09-03 18:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by Dr M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is all about infactuation that is caused by opp sex thats it
2006-09-03 18:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by Mahesh K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋