while living in the same town as your disfunctional violent andown right mean family who is angry because Iam getting professional help and they dont have what it takes to dothat? I love them but tonight my sister came over to my house and literly beat me up. nd I havent had a physical fight in over 20 years. I made a vow to never fight again and havent infact I let her hurt me. it was horrible, what should I do? its very complicated because I am a single mom and my 2 girls are well established in this town and they are both very successful in school both are straight a sutdents and are very good girls. they are my priority. it might be best in the long run to move away but one of my kids had a hard time finding her place in life she was born with spina bifida and is very socially active and has a job as she works. she is 18 years old and I really dont want to move her, the other daughter is equally successful. she is in 5th grade and taking highschool courses through special programs.
2006-09-03 17:54:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
pasta 326 I am sorry if I had a few typos and some inperfect grammer I actually had the h*ll beat out of me about 2 hours ago and am a bit upset, you inconsiderate person
2006-09-03 18:00:33 · update #1
a police report was filed
2006-09-03 18:02:59 · update #2
Your dysfunctional, trailer trash family is upset because you're making them realize what losers they are; move if you have to and as for your sister, I'd go to the Police and have a report written; I've found that just because you're born into a family doesn't necessarily make them "family". I consider my 2 best friends and my son "my family".
2006-09-03 17:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by sweet ivy lyn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though you've had some real problems with you're family. It also seems that you are the one with the brains because the others act as if they like the confusion. You should not however have allowed your sister to assault you. Their is such a thing as calling 911. Growing up as a child has it's own drawbacks but coming from a dysfuntional family really adds to the drama. You should not give in, and move just because your family likes to live in misery. Can't you forbid your sister from coming to your house? I commend you for the efforts you have shown in taking care of your family. I know it's hard but if you believe that God is real then you will come out the victor. You can get over your rough childhood but some memories never go away. I can't remember what happened last week but I can remember the day in 1963 when my father passed away. I have been struggling with that for years. Seeking professional help is the best thing you can do. I did. Don't allow your family to keep you from bettering yourself. You did the right thing. It's okay to remember even bad things from childhood. Just don't wallow in the self pity.
2006-09-04 01:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever the reason, it seems like your fine without your family.
if your family is abusive and disfunctional, keep them out of your life.
it is OKAY to remove your family from your life if they are
A. useless and aren't supportive.
B. they harm you physical + mentaly.
Just file a police report saying your sister came and beat you up.
(I hope she didn't beat you up because it involved his boyfriend, husband and money).
I don't know what the situations are and you haven't really explained why your sister beat you up, so I can't justify the beating. BUT ! concerning your daughters, if you don't want to remove them from their current home, just file a police report. it can be tough to make new friends and such. Even moving right now while they have a life in the town, might cause them to hold a grudge against you.
2006-09-04 01:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by artist.returned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i be live that fighting never proved anny thing
but if i have no chois i make sure the other remembers me
that way they will think twice about coming back 4 more
i dont care how big u r if u hurt 4 a week u remember
as 4 moving that would depend on how bad it is 4 u in that toun
it would also give u the oportunity to get closer to beter medical facilities your kids nead
but in the end the situation and your desision must b yours
but listen 2 your kids
2006-09-04 01:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by fragle2c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It is possible to get well from a tragic childhood but only if you deal with it and get help. Do not let yourself be beat up. I respect your choice not to fight, but you should also be protected. It sounds as if you need to get the police involved and have a restraining order put against your sister. Get yourself help and then see what you need to do for your children.
Moving your children is hard, but perhaps as you suggested, it would be the healthiest thing for them too. The eldest is an adult legally and she may choose to stay anyway.
Blessings to you.
2006-09-04 00:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by bortiepie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i read your message and i hope i can add my input and hopefully it will do you some good since you seem to be comfortable in the town you are in and your children like it there i would buy me another place in a different area and not give them my address/phone number and look forward to your new found life do not look behind you. yesterday is come and gone nothing you can do about that now but you can make a better future for you and your children you work on that god bless you!
2006-09-04 01:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by mishoney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing by your grammar (lack of), you daugthers do not get that from you.
2006-09-04 00:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋