ok ok ok do im kinda little bit young (14) and i want to hav sex. buuuut i dont kno,what i should do,i mean wether im ready for it or if i should wait. i mean out of all my friends im the only virgin and im startin to feel urges. HELP ME!
2006-09-03 17:33:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
you're friends are either lying or they are ho's. do you want to be either? you are WAAaaaaaay too young for that kind of responsibility. if you're not ready to be a mother, you're not ready to have sex.
2006-09-03 17:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mina222 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to have sex. Don't worry about being the only virgin, one day they will wish they had waited and not wasted it on some dumb boy whom didn't appreciate what a gift you gave up for him. I am in my 30's now and had sex at the age of 16. Looking back I cannot imagine what in the world I was thinking doing that with the person I was with at that time. If you wait until you are completely ready and the "man" you are with is the right one you will know it is time. The truth about teenage sex is that the only person who enjoys it is the boy. Some day you will find Mr. Right and he will want to make sure that you are enjoying it too. So, please wait, don't let your friends pressure you into having sex, it just isn't worth it. Besides, you need to think about STD's and pregnancy. Remember this, whoever he has had sex with, it will be like you have had sex with them because you will be exposed to all of his past flings. Sex is dangerous and you should put some major thought into this. You will have to live with this the rest of your life.
2006-09-04 16:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by country girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would definately wait. so what if your the only virgin out of your friends? so was i and high school and i didnt care at all. it depends what your morals are. and just cause you have "urges" then take care of them yourself. everyone has them but it deosnt mean you should act upon them. i had a lot of urges around your age but witied tilli had a steady bf. in a long, good realtionship that im still innow.you s hould do the same, or even better wait till your married! yous houdl be focusing more on school now. and it seems liek you are under peer pressure, you shouldnt just get rid of your virginity just so you can say "yeah im not a virgin anymore either" trust me i know alot of people who lost their virginities while they wer your age and they regret ait and knew they shoudl have waited, i advise you do the same. please stay safe and focus on school more, dont let your firends pressure you into something just cause they seem "cool" that they arent virgins anymore. just dont do it. act on your own urges, take care of them yourself dont let some boy who doesnt care abotu you do it!
plus your mother and father would be disappointd in you if they found out. theres always a risk for pregnancy and stds too!
just dont do it please!
i knowm you hate to hear this but you're too young still wait for that special someone who you know loves and cares abotu you in the long run and possinly have a furture together
dont listen to your friends
2006-09-03 17:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweet heart u will know when the time is right rember you cant take back the first time you want it to be with someone special u need protection never have unprotected sex no matter how much u love them dont want stds ok so when u find the right guy dont be in a rush and dont listen to what other people say its just as much fun making out with a guy at that age or fooling around .
I hope this helps sweetness u will no when ur ready.
2006-09-03 17:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be rpoud ur still a virgin and dont rush into something u are going to regret u did the next day, there are so many consequenses with having sex, diseases and chances of getting pregnant, when u are ready get on birth control and always use condoms, good luck
2006-09-04 03:03:49 · answer #5 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... i was the same way first my best friend and then my other friends and then i made up stories cuz i kinda wanted to too! But when i did i thought is was so good cuz it was the love of my life then he had to move away but now that i think of it i should of wait it is only once you can lose your virginity and i would wait until it is the one my friend did and she has been with her boyfriend for 3 years!! ANd they have a good relationship!!
2006-09-03 17:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by Tabitha S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As someone who knows where you are coming from I suggest you wait. I made the mistake of doing it when I was not ready and I have regret it ever since. If you have the slightest doubt in your mind as to weather you are ready or not I would wait. Sex is definetly something to Cherish and it is best to wait for marriage and if you know you will not wait that long, then atleast save yourself for someone you truly love and who truly loves you in return.
2006-09-03 17:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by luv4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T!! You should wait as long as possible! Be proud to be different! Tell your friends that you won't have all the dieseases and a baby when you graduate! If you feel urges, masturbate! There is nothing wrong with it and you can't get yourself pregnant or give yourself a disease!
2006-09-03 17:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by Emily E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know when the time is right for you...it seems that you still have some doubts about it...dont do it cuz everyone else is...you are still young and ur first time isnt gonna be that great. it will hurt and you are gonna wanna do it withsome you care about and who isnt gonna do a wham bam thankyou ma'am. just be safe(birth control, condoms) and have the person get tested to make sure you dont get any std's. good luck with everything!!!!
2006-09-03 17:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by *His_Playgirl* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely too young! You need to wait for the right guy. Someone you fall in love with. Someone who will stay with you and not just want you for one reason. Trust me! Don't do it!
2006-09-03 17:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by ru.barbie2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding?! do you want STDs or a child? you may like it, but have you thought of the consquences? and do you really want to have sex just because your friends have? thats lame. and if youve come here then its obvious that you have doubts about doing it...otherwise you would be doing it already! im pretty sure that everyone on here will tell you not to do it...and listen to them!
2006-09-03 17:36:54 · answer #11 · answered by laura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋