2006-09-03 17:15:48 · 24 answers · asked by rayne715 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think any time line of getting married is a good idea, until you meet the right girl, fall completely in love with them and as well really understands that person throughout. Its never the best intentions to say you are getting married until the moment you find the person that you know that you just can't live without
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-03 17:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. I always wanted to be married before I was 30. Fortunately, when I was 18, I met my husband, we dated for 5 1/2 years until I finished college, got married, and 2 years later had a baby. I'm 28 now and very happy. Good luck!
2006-09-03 17:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good if you already have the love of your life and he wants the same thing but if you don't life is just unpredictable. I am 27, I never knew that I would still be single. I thought I would be happily married, have a great job, 2 kids and a dog name Bessie. LOL. But these are the cards I'm dealt, so in the mean time, I'll just try to enjoy my life even if that special someone doesn't come along.
2006-09-03 17:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do, as long as you don't run out and marry the first person who shows and interest.
I think it's good to be marriage-minded, just make sure that the people you date are aware of your intentions (without scaring them off) so that if they are not in agreement, you won't waste precious time.
Also, don't marry someone with the intent of changing them just because your time is running up.
So, in summary, I think it's good to have a plan, but be flexible somewhat.
2006-09-03 17:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by skydivemommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a goal is a good way to sharpen your focus, but don't force something that isn't right just to meet the goal. Instead of thinking of it as "getting married" by the time you're 30, why not have the goal be to meet the kind of people you like to be with and would like to get to know better? Put yourself in situations where you would be likely to meet these kinds of people, e.g., by going to places where people with interests common to yours would likely be.
2006-09-03 17:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by mangoandindianajones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, no. What if you don't meet that one person that makes the rest of the world vanish until after you've already married some guy that came along at the right time to meet your plan?
2006-09-03 17:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by professor x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's more important to be very comfortable with this person and just let things fall in place naturally. I wouldn't keep that thing in my head all the time - I gotta get married, I gotta get married.
2006-09-03 17:20:45 · answer #7 · answered by gloria123445566 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30's a good age to be married by, but you really can't plan love around a plan. Just be yourself and let it happen. don't worry about it to hard.
2006-09-03 17:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by michaeln_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should plan to marry by a certain date. It makes you rush into things. Just let things happen the way it was meant to be.
2006-09-03 17:19:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get married by 26 and have kids right aways. People wait too long these days. You'll thank me when you're older.
2006-09-03 17:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by Rockford 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋