my daughter is 20 , and she has never had a baby, but i feel that she has had a misscarriage because of the symptoms she has told me. i just dont think her bleeding like that is normal at all. i had a total hystorectomy and that could be she needs that and her uterus has gave out. But i really believe she had amisscarriage. do you think that is it? shes in great pain and dizzy, sick, tired. and when she pees she said it hurts. i am worried about her . She is so many miles away from me, what should i tell her to do? i AM A MOM VERY WORRIED.please help !!!!!!!
2006-09-03 17:14:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
ok. I GOT HER TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL. I WILL UPDATE YOU WHEN SHE CALLS ME. i am miles and miles away from her. I just hope she calls me soon. Thanks evry 1
2006-09-03 17:59:17 · update #1
Get her to the Dr. ASAP. Don't waste time here.
2006-09-03 17:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by AirborneSaint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to be aware of the symptoms of miscarriges. The most common symptom is vaginal bleeding, which can range from light spotting to heavier than a period. There may be blood clots, or other tissue that is not clearly identifiable. Sometimes a sac-like structure is seen. Often there is cramping, with period-type pains. Some women find that the usual symptoms of pregnancy, such as breast tenderness, feeling sick and having to pass urine more frequently than usual, may stop unexpectedly.
If your daughter is on birth control and has recently stopped taking it, this can also cause unusual bleeding. The bleeding is very heavy and, at times, extremely painful.
Passing urine with pain involved isn't a sympton of a miscarriage or missing birth control. Regardless of what you or your daughter may think it is, it is absolutely necessary for her to see a gynecologist. If the symptoms aren't adding up to a miscarriage, then have your daughter to start on birth control immediately, even if she is still bleeding. Her iron may be low...she may need to start on iron pills which can be prescribed by a doctor.
2006-09-03 17:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by jenniffervaughn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably just because you've had consistently unprotected sex. It can alter your cycle in this way. Your cycle dates seem about right don't they. I would get a check up at some point anyway if you are actively trying for a baby. At the very least, get a test kit to make sure you are ovulating. If you think you aren't, see your doctor. Although you have "agreed" and are "OK" with not getting pregnant, I would be surprised if you were able to stand by that decision a few months from now. Just "sort of trying" for a baby changes everything, including how you feel about not getting pregnant, especially when your period tells you again and again that you are not. Its not quite the same for your husband, he doesn't have the hormonal fluctuations that you will have to cope with. I'm not disregarding his feelings, they count just as much as this is the biggest joint-decision you will make. All the best to both of you.
2016-03-26 21:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could have a UTI, pelvic inflammatory condition, or something like that. If there is a chance she could be pregnant then she needs to see a doctor right away. ER might be a good choice. The greatest risk would be an ectopic pregnancy! These require immediate medical attention!!! A regular misscarrage can be heart breaking and unfortunate, but ectopic can be life threatening. Sorry to worry you, but better safe than sorry.
2006-09-03 17:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by petlover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rush her to the emergency room. I've had 2 miscarriages. They are very painful and there is major bleeding. She needs to get examined to make sure it all passed through. She may need what they call a DNC (getting the walls of the vagina scrapped and cleaned). She could develop an infection that would be easy to detect after a period of time by a raunchy smell. That could end up very fatal.
2006-09-03 17:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by Wednesday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DR. to the DR. even if it's a health department or clinic. This happened to me when I was 18 and I had to have a DNC. So, she is loosing blood and is maybe anemic and who knows what else. She must have medical attention so she doesn't get an infection or need a blood transfusion. The ER may be what she'll have to do for now until the holiday is over. do whatever she has to do to see a DR. Good Luck!
2006-09-03 17:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like a miscarriage but a UTI or a urinary tract infection. Blood in urine could mean it went into the kidneys., could lead to kidney failure Just tell her to go to the local ER. They cant turn her down if she doesnt have insurance and cant ask if she is an illegal. Illegals give fake names all the time.
2006-09-03 17:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by circusdejojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to really know for sure until she is checked out by a doctor...I had the same problem...I was quite far from my mother as well...I had a miscarriage...I had a lot of blood...alot of clotting...and was very very painful...but if not check by a doctor to see if it is a miscarrige...she could be in trouble...because if it is for sure...she will have to have a ultrasound to make sure she has passed everything that needs to be passed...If not it will make her very sick...Sorry I couldn't tell you more...but please tell her to go get checked...Please!!! Then you can all rest easier....!!!!
2006-09-04 04:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF and only IF she has had a miscarriage, She may need a Curate.
This is a procedure to get rid of the excess foetus that she may not have expelled...Tell your daughter to get to a hospital..soon!
If something is not done soon, she will have a whole heap of dead blood inside her and it will lead to blood poisoning..It's harsh but true..Talk to your daughter and tell her to visit a hospital A.S.A.P!!
Have you asked her:
Does she seem to need to go to the toilet alot, but when she gets there........Nothing??
did she tell you that her was urine a funny colour
If so she may have a urinery infection..Quite painful, but easily treated.
get her to see a doctor at her local hospital.
2006-09-03 17:20:17 · answer #9 · answered by tui 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing all the details, it could be any number of things..You should tell her to go to the doctor asap. If she can't get in to see her regular doctor, she should go to the emergency room or to a walk-in clinic that is close by.
2006-09-03 17:18:09 · answer #10 · answered by brendalyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately we can't guess at something as serious and potentially life threatening as this. She needs to see a doctor. If she doesn't have insurance, go to the emergency room of the local not-for-profit hospital.
2006-09-03 17:20:02 · answer #11 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋