OK i'm sorry the question sounds really offensive :( i didn't mean for it to come out like that.
Anyway, i'm in a wierd situation here: i skipped 3 grades, so i get teased all the time in school! it started in 7th grade when i was 9 and my peers were 12. at the time, i was sensitive. so i cried at home...
now i'm 13, my peers are 16. I feel SO self-concious at school because stupid guys tease me about my age. i'm tougher now than when i was 9. but it still hurts deep down inside.
for example, here's a typical convo:
him: hey brandy!
me: hi!?
him: so did you want to go out or WHAT!!!??? ( in a really loud and sarcastic voice)
me: uh...no...*blush*
(laughter by him and his stupid friends)
i feel so alone. i have a couple of good friends who accept me.
how do i stop all the teasing without being rude?
2006-09-03 17:09:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OMFG those guys are so mean!! Why don't you just ignore them. If you keep paying attention to them then your just going to add more fun into their ghetto lives. They won't stop if you show them that you are hurt. You have to show them that you don't care about their obnoxious rude comments. Show them that you are strong. They will then leave you alone and move on. If they do that convo again with you just say, Nah I wouldn't want to go out with any guys who are below average in many ways. So why don't you guys run along and be the dumb and dumbers that you are. Then smile and ignore those jerks. You sound like a very smart sensitive girl who has gotten stronger within the years, but you have to start using your intelligence to get back at those idiots. Don't let them stomp all over you like if you where a door mat. Stand up to them even though if your words come out rude and offensive lol It's always better if you have those friends of your around you, so they can help you stand up to those wannabe cool guys. Like omg If you need more advice or just need someone to talk to just hit me up at neri_yasmin@yahoo.com and I would be more then happy to help out :)
Ciao and take care. Good luck on those dweebs lol
2006-09-03 18:29:33 · answer #1 · answered by a_cute_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's how high school is darlin'!! I got teased lots in school, not cuz I was smart like you, but cuz I was a little strange...haha. You need to focus on the good friends that you do have, not the jerks that tease you. Try not to let them see that is bothers you, cuz that will take the fun out of it for them. Maybe eventually they will leave you alone. Other than that, stay focused on your studies, your good friends...stuff that makes you feel good about being you! Ignore the stupid jerks, they are just ignorant bullies anyways! Good luck :)
2006-09-03 17:16:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it and walk away. They are teasing you to get a reaction out of you. As long as you continue to react to the teasing it will go on. so walk away and shrug it off. when these idiots see you are no longer affected by their teasing they will move on to someone else.
Anyway congratulations on your advancement that is really something to be proud of and that is part of their problem you are smarter than they are.
2006-09-03 17:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by georgia_102560 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you figure out that you are smarter than any of them will ever be so when you all get out in to the real world those same jerks will be the onea fixing your lexus, if they are lucky enough for you to let them!
Secondly you realize that the things that people say are really about themselves and their own issues and their own brains....it truly doesn't have anything to do with you or who you are at all. (this is my don't let other people make their crap yours theory and once I figured it out my life was soooo much easier) If you need proof of the truth in that statement the next time they do it duck in to the bathroom, check the mirror...do you look the same? Yes Ok now think for a second or two...are you the same you? Yes of course, so guess what that means that what they said has absolutely no meaning whatsoever. It doesn't change you at all. In order for it to hurt you it has to be you that is granting them that power, just don't anymore. The power to hurt you is something you give to someone else so just take it back.
Some jerk asks you to go out just say thanks but I prefer to date guys whose iq's are larger than their shoe sizes or say no thanks I'm taking a break from tutoring morons for a while or make some comment about requiring your dates to be a little higher on the food chain....anything that makes him look stupid and you look like you couldn't be bothered with him..have a look on your face while you say it that is similar to the one you would have if you just stepped in something gross LOL! Then YOU laugh at them and keep walking. They (boys) do it to try to look cool in front of their equally idiotic teenaged boy friends, the moment you turn the tables on that and make THEM look stupid in front of said friends they will never dare to try it again for fear of being humiliated by someone who is not only younger but also smarter than they are. Don't worry about being rude, some people just aren't worth being nice to. Besides they do it just to bother you anyway and the only reason its any fun for them is because it does bother you. Teenage boys are truly morons and truly aren't worth worrying about. Dont give up hope, they grow out of this stupid stage...well some of them do, they grow in to a different kind of stupid but it does change a little! LOL!
2006-09-03 17:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try using some of the age old lines like........ with you never!!!! If I ever get desperate I give you a call!!!!!!! And last but not least, even my dog has better taste than to go out with you. Let everyone know what you end up doing. Go for you can stand tall!!!!!!!
2006-09-03 17:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by Christina W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"With all do appreciate, i m no longer the fellow who will be speaking in an unparliamentary way as a couple of minutes go via.." Which actually skill "no longer attempting to disrespect you yet... I m no longer going to be the single speaking out of my *** in a minute"
2016-12-06 08:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by busbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it doesnt matter if u r rude cuz they r been rude to you , but the best way to stop that just ignor them and dont talk to them ...also is better to make fun of urself instead of the people making fun of u ....just ignore them
2006-09-03 17:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by JP 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just remember that whatever doesn't break you makes you,so each time they tease you,your going to get stronger. and i know it doesn't seem like it now,but in the future,it's going to benefit them.
2006-09-03 18:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by ♥LiL MiZ THANG ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By ignoring the idiots.
2006-09-03 17:14:21 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
next time tell him to go f*ck off that what i would say
2006-09-03 17:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋