I have erectile dysfunction whenever I'm having sex with or without a partner. I cant keep an erection longer than maybe 15 seconds and I go limp unless I keep manually stimulating myself. And after I ejaculate once, then I can never get hard again no matter how hard I try. It takes another couple days before I can get an erection again.
But When I'm sleeping and I get up to go to the bathroom, I always have nice hard erections. I'm always hard all night long while I'm sleeping. But when I'm awake I cant keep it up. Why is this? It's not a mental issue, it's definately a physical problem.
2006-09-03 17:06:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
It would seem to me that if my penis is rock hard while I'm sleeping, I should be able to maintain a rock hard erection for a longer length of time while I'm awake in the day. Even when I get up from sleeping to pee, my penis still wont go limp, its always hard when I get up. Then the rest of the day it wont get hard, and if it does it goes limp in under 30 seconds. Then I stimulate it again, it gets hard, then it starts to go limp again in about 15 to 30 seconds. I'm 40 years old, No high blood pressure, No diabetes, but I do have Low blood sugar (hypoglycemia) which usually only comes on when I skip a meal. It's definately a physical problem.
2006-09-03 17:12:32 · update #1
the more you manually stimulating your self you'll never keep function with your partner, your hand is stronger than any vagina.so leave your self alone for awhile. and all men ,boys wake up with a stiffy.
2006-09-03 17:14:37 · answer #1 · answered by djc103169 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you that you just need to get used to it. You seem to have the right idea, but you have not practiced enough. Get comfortable with her and if you have trouble with your erection then don`t worry about it. That just means you need more foreplay or maybe she needs some attention. In a few minutes you will be ready for action for sure. Like I said, practice makes perfect. Also, try not having an orgasm for a few days before you have sex. That might help keep you motivated.
2016-03-17 07:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-14 11:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are really excited. Maybe you are so sexually aroused that you can not control the erection. And that is mental and physical. Talk to a therapist. Or try relaxing before sex. Or maybe you are moving to fast into the act of sex. Try to take it slow.
2006-09-03 17:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Wednesday 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-10 01:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let go of the fear of not being able to have an erection. If you cant do that, then get viagra.
2006-09-03 17:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by Keith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would speak to my GP and see if it warrants further investigation. it could be a number of things.
2006-09-03 17:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by leolady0765 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it is stress it could be a number of things
2006-09-03 17:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by happybunnyjg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see your doctor...
you may be diabetic..
or have high cholesteral or high blood pressure.
also try changing your diet..and/or alcohol consumption
2006-09-03 17:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by chefzilla65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋