had a crush on someone so much that you just can't get them out of ur head? cuz there is this kid that i have been talking to 4 about 4 mo. on the computer and he totally opens up and tells me like everything but at skool it is a completely different story he won't talk to me unless i talk to him first and he acts really shy.. he is sending my mixed messages and i just don't know what to do... it is really weird because like at lunch during school i always eat outsidw with my friends and so does he we can always see eachother from where we sit but anyway i always feel really weird like someone is staring at me and when i turn aroound there is someone looking at me and it's him! but when i look at him he turns around quick!!! and when we talk on the computer and making jokes and stuff if he thinks that he has offended me he is always liek giving me this huge apolagy saying how sry he was for saying that but he really didn't hurt my feelings at all! does he like me or what?
2006-09-03 17:02:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
He definately likes you!!! I think he's sort of like me because for some people, myself included, expressing feelings through words on paper/email/IM is so much easier than face to face interaction. It's complicated, but by the way he acts he is afraid to show his "real self" in front of you...there is nothing you can really do except talk to him about it...tell him to be comfortable around you and if he says something that offends you, you'll tell him!
2006-09-03 17:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, without knowing your exact age, I'm guessing you two are budding early adolescence. HE DOES LIKE YOU! As a friend or more, I'm not sure. He is avoiding you at school while sneaking a peak at you while you're not looking because public flirtation is a scary, new concept for both of you. Both of you don't know what your peers will consider socially acceptable flirtation behavior. I'm also guessing that neither of you can really date yet. But in a way, you can think of your online chats as dating. BUT DON'T GO TOO FAR INTO THE DEEP END WITH THIS IDEA! Flirting too much will scare him off. If you enjoy talking with him online...KEEP ENJOYING IT! Don't force him to talk to you at school because the conversation will not be as good as when you talk online.
If he eventually asks you out and you wanna go...GO! If you continue your online chats and he doesn't officially ask you out, I guarantee that as you guys get older, he will start talking with you at school. He's just waiting for the social rule to change that says, "Girls have cudies!"
Best of Luck!
2006-09-03 17:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by grateteecher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do really think he likes you. I'm like him i'm all shy and stuff in person but on the computer i'm hyper and talkative and friendly. So I do think he likes you but I mean he sounds nice I bet if you asked him on the internet he'd give you a nice answer, no matter if he does or doesn't. Good luck with this. Hope it works out.
2006-09-03 18:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people can say things over the phone and in chat rather than in person, because they are shy, take what comes out of it at least you have a good friend if he doesn't put the moves on you.
2006-09-03 17:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-09-03 17:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by zebo007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he obv. likes you, but a lot of people feel more comfortable opening up on the internet, so maybe you should ask him why he acts so different at school or go sit by him one day at lunch and see what he does.
2006-09-03 17:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by danilysa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have had a HUGE crush turns out they didn't feel the same way about me.
in your case it's a little hard to tell but i think that he may like you.
just keep one thing in mind your not enterely sure so if it turns out he dosn't like you you shouldn't let it affect you becuase that won't help.
GOOD LUCK!!!
just remember no matter what happends don't let it affect your life.
2006-09-03 17:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he really likes you. he's just afraid of face to face interaction. i'm like that. i talk to my friends but am more open on the puter. I just don't want to know their reaction or rejection. He is probably infatuated with you. let him come out in his own way.
2006-09-03 17:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by Teri D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be embarrassed. try getting him to talk about what he wrote on the computer. like say "that was so funny what you said on the computer last night!". If that doesn't work. try talking to him about it he might not crack on the first conversation about it, but just wait and he will. So just try it.
2006-09-03 17:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by girlofschool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMGhe totally likes you. He doesnt want to show you how much he likes you and doesnt want to let you seem him looking at you. He also likes u cuz he acts shy and is afraid to be face to face with you. If he didnt like you that much he wouldnt really notice how much he might have hurt you ( even tho you arent mad) but he stops and regrets it. I'm 99% sure he likees you. One step is if you like him on the computer tell him "I really like you and I wanted to know if you liked me bak" make sure you dont sound desperate. and tell him if he doesnt like you they way you think he might then you dont want things to be awkward and still wnat to be friends. (its happened to me but i didnt like him but we r still friends)
2006-09-03 17:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by Mollie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋