My boyfriends friend totally tried to kiss me and hit on me a party that I was at, I told him no, and he still tried all night. My boyfriend is away out of town, and when I told him he was pissed and ended their friendship, but why do I feel guilty I did nothing wrong.
2006-09-03 16:46:51 · 10 answers · asked by chocolate pudding 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because you're a moral person who feels at fault for breaking up their friendship. Funny, the friend didn't seem to feel bad about possibly taking his friends girlfriend. What kind of a friend was he?
I hope your boyfriend isn't making you feel guilty. You both are better off without this loser!
2006-09-03 16:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by Plain and Simple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman, we look for subtle signs in the other sex before we make a move- So, you may be feeling that in some fashion you might have mislead him into thinking that you wanted to have more than a friendship. This is not the case though- because as a man they dont really plan out sexual encounters. They just go for it and if they get shot down they just move on. You didnt do anything wrong- just think of it as a complement. He wanted you that bad- he was willing to screw over a friend just to see if he could get at you!
2006-09-03 16:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by Empress - 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not feel guilty at all. The friend wasn't much of a friend to hit on a friends girl. If anything he should have been kind to you and protective of you. (Meaning that if you needed help he would be there for you) Your guy isn't blaming you he is blaming his friend as it should be. You should hold your head high because your man not only loves you but he respects and admires your relationship. Thank him for me as well.
2006-09-03 16:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by Big "D" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you did you should have kept your mouth shut ,Now you boy friend will reasent you for breaking up there friendship and will dump you ,You feel guilty cause you took the high moral ground (made a do gooder out of your self ) but you know you did the wrong thing
2006-09-03 16:51:37 · answer #4 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may feel guilty because you know in your heart that you are not going to stay with this guy and you just ruined a good friendship for nothing
2006-09-03 16:49:39 · answer #5 · answered by capollar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no way you're able to sense in charge for it,he completely introduced that on himself. He don't have been attempting to touch you,exceedingly as you probably did not desire him to. some thing comparable got here approximately to my boyfriend years in the past and he smashed a cup on the guy's head,it grew to become into self-defence,precisely the comparable as you. it is not your fault he fell and hit his back and there is no way every physique will blame you for it. i'm hoping that guy would not hardship you lower back. sturdy success and maximum suitable desires for the destiny x
2016-10-01 07:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby because you know it hurt your boyfriend, and he just lost a friend, but that was no good friend was it. you must really care about him that could be why you feel bad
2006-09-03 17:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by L.A. WOMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as well you should be feelin guilty eventhough you didn't do anything.
when your boy comes back go tell him.. the guilt willgo away!
2006-09-03 16:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by All Of the Above 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu hate to be mean to someone
2006-09-03 16:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you felt that u almost betrayed your friend
2006-09-03 16:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by Brook-Lyn19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋