2006-09-03 16:39:47 · 16 answers · asked by jr's Man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i will tell you..but dont take it to far..if he is your boyfriend..and he care..he love you..at least a little...does he share..time..not spent all the time of the life time..but does he care a little well that is enough in the other side qut..asq..for more you are not satisfy find something to do...a hobby work..or etc..you will see how many people will like spending time with you..and sharing...in another way..is you really wants to know about love you will have to find a piscis..person..or you wont
2006-09-03 16:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by lins 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You didn't give us enough details for us to form an opinion!
Are you another gay man, or are you a straight woman? How long have you been involved with him - or ARE you "involved" in the conventional sense of the word (physical affection)??? How old are the two of you?
If you even have to ASK this question, chances are things are pretty dicey.
If you're a straight girl like ME, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but you are on a one-way ticket to NOWHERE. I speak from the past 10 years of sad experience. My gay "boyfriend" and I just broke it off for good a few nights ago - I'm at the end of my rope waiting for something that's evidently NEVER going to happen - and HE'S sick & tired of me "judging" him and not FULLY accepting him for "who he IS"; i.e., a GAY man!!!! Well, I just CAN'T deal with it anymore, even though I love him more than anything on earth. I suppose it was inevitable all along (that's what everyone always TOLD me!) - but still, I hung in there, hoping for a change. So at the risk of sounding cynical here, if you are a woman - no matter HOW he professes to "love" you, what he REALLY means is "like a SISTER"!!!! If you don't mind spending all eternity catering to a gay man who loves you "like a sister", while he is saving all the goodies for another MAN, then by all means, stick with him. When he finds himself another guy to share his bed with, he will assume you will be more than happy to "roll out the red carpet", give a big fat welcome, and even cook DINNER for him & his new lover!
If your're a woman and this scenario does not appeal to you, DO NOT invest all your emotions for ultimate heartbreak! Am I angry? Am I bitter? Am I regretful? YOU BET. If you are in love with your "gay boyfriend" already, the sooner you get over it, the better off YOU'LL be! Don't wait 10 years.
If, on the other hand, you are of the MALE gender, you probably won't like my answer at all, but here goes:
I don't think what two guys have can be called "real love". I think it's more like "lustful perversion"! After hanging out with my "gay boyfriend" and all his homo pals for so long now, I know their world well. They jump from one lover to the next, and EVERYTHING is based on outter appearance, not some deeply-rooted "emotional bond". I think, in general, so many men are prone to gayness (MORE & MORE) due to two overriding factors: one, they were homosexually molested as children, and two - it is a way to avoid true intimacy and committment, which scares the hell out of them. In other words, if they bed up with another MAN, it's "no big deal" - they can just "do the dirty deed" and be done with it till the NEXT time. With a woman it would be DIFFERENT - possibly marriage, children, forever....
So, to answer your question, I would say NO.
A gay man "loves" only his mama, and himself, of course. Another man is purely the object of his twisted desire, and a woman is nothing more than a faithful pet to puff up his ego and help him get through the "dry spells"!
2006-09-03 17:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you know he is a gay then he may not love you much.
2006-09-03 16:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ur boyfriend is gay? he will never love u the way u want him to. he will only love another man the way u dont want him to.
2006-09-03 16:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if hes gay then what are u doing with him
2006-09-03 16:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by t t 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look at his crotch. If it's hard (no matter what you look like) then beware. If he still pays for dinner when you're on the rag, that could be love. If you throw up in his bathtub & he cleans it up, that's love!!!
2006-09-03 16:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by slikk pikka 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no one knows this for sure, gay or straight. it is the gamble one takes.
2006-09-03 16:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask? Did he ever tell you? How long have you two been dating?
2006-09-03 16:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you are equally gay like him....he'll like you.
2006-09-03 16:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok huh? IM cofused. Are you gay to?
2006-09-03 16:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋