was walking on the street today, dressed it black slacks and a black t-shirt (work uniform) and these two guys were leaving a store and go "damn look at that girl (I'm the only one on the street) she's so fine, check out her ***, she's so hott!!" and they just laughed cause I ignored them. I was SO upset and almost in tears when I got to work. I couldn't believe someone could be so disrespectful like I am just a piece of trash. I'm still very much bothered by their rude and ignorant comments. Why on earth do guys behave in this way?? What is wrong with them?? I feel like a lot of guys are like this and it makes me so sad! Why would anyone ever act this way, and guys..have you ever acted so disrespectfully to a girl?? If so, shame on you!
2006-09-03 16:33:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well....there are many rude men and women in this world....they aren't about to change nor grow up and learn manners. So, you have to tell yourself, I am better then this, they are NOTHING, and nothing can't hurt you. Only you can let others hurt you, don't give them permission to do that hun.
2006-09-03 16:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by Firefly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NEVER DID THAT BUT I THINK IT PRETTY REGULAR. i HAVE SEEN WHERE YOUNG AND SOME OLDER WOMEN OPPS like it and stop and talk, perhaps it was a successful pick up?? It is common, so common I wonder why you would be so upset. I am not justifying it but there is lotsa ugliness around why center on that. I have had women grab my bottom in bars as I walk by. and some other things like that more lately which since I am 60 I gotta wonder whats the attraction. It does not get me upset and I do value civil manners. Here's what I think. I think it scared you. I am a big wide shouldered guy so I am not a likely to be abused. Well being grabbed is abuse but not hurt. We men think it all the time these poor mannered people just say it outloud. Perhaps you are just so hot they could not help themselves
2006-09-03 16:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they thought they were saying a compliment but you didn't think that. Everybody has different points of view. Maybe they liked to be ignored. Maybe they were trying to impress you and/or each other. Maybe the wanted to laugh at you. Maybe they felt more man. I don't know what could happened but I'm sorry if you got that experience. Not all men are like them. I don't do that.
If you have another experience like that, ignore them. Sometimes it's worse to turn around and say something.
Maybe they envy you?
2006-09-03 18:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by Mysterio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys acts like that to hide the fact that they're too scared to actually talk to a pretty girl. Think about it. Haven't both of those idiots made it impossible for them to stand a chance with you?
They're scared and immature, and probably end up blowing eachother at the end of lonely Saturday nights.
2006-09-03 16:37:29 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny Tezca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait till they don't say anything, you'd be missing the days where guys gave you attention. Deep down you like the attention, it's reassurance for your self image.
Yes some guys are dogs, there immature or losers but probably both.
But if no guy ever gave you attention or worse, all the guys would say how ugly you were, you'd far miss the days when you made guys heads turn and yell out windows at ya.
Your a girl, this shi+ happens deal with it....it's not going to go away, always gonna be dog guys, so you need to learn to deal with it.
2006-09-03 16:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-01 07:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of men only value women for their bodies and what they look like not who they are. Some women can be the same way about men.
2006-09-03 16:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why does a dog lick its balls?
Because it can!
Same thing goes for men - why do they behave this way .. because they can, it makes them feel big and macho .. and no one is going to stop them, so it continues.
2006-09-03 16:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Society has told them that it is allowed, especially now that islam is so prevalent and men of that religion treat women as whores if theu aren't wearing a burka. next time, turn around and tell them " Oh, as if YOU had a chance!"
2006-09-03 16:38:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The next time take some eggs with you and throw it at their face. Their mommas never taught them how to respect a woman.
2006-09-03 16:36:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋