How do you find your way in life? Do you listen to people advices or you do it on your own. How did you get to where are you now in your life? Do you live life how you think you should and is acceptable by others or you live it how you want it without caring what any body also thinks?
2006-09-03 16:24:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well, you have to have role models. You are not born with knowledge necessary to be a self-sufficient person. The wisest people try to learn as much as possible from others. But, when it comes to what you want in life, and what you think is important, you have to follow your heart. Ultimately the choices you make are your own.
2006-09-03 16:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by martin h 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find way in life easily.I have fun and happy but sometimes I have a sad situation and unhappy..If I have fun and be happy I should thank to my God and give and share my happiness to others.If I have a sad situation and unhappy I should be patient and try hard to make it better..I should pray everyday to my God for thanking and forgiving and asking help.
I convince that my life in this world is not eternal.On a certain date in the the future I should die but I do not know the exact time and where I will die and what is the cause of my death.In this short time I should do many good deeds and avoid wrong deeds.I should live in line with my religion Islam.I should preparing long investment in this world for a good place in heaven as my goals in eternal life.I should earn and spend my income permitted by Allah for the goodness of my family,my neighbours and my government..I love and help each other within my family,my neighbours and my government as possible as I can .I should pay taxes and alms for helping others.I should obey my governmant laws and regulations.In my everyday life I should
do everything in line with Islamic teaching.I do not do what should be avoided as spoken by our God in holy Qur'an and Hadith.I should pray at least five times a day thanking and asking forgiveness to my God. .I should work well as an implementation of my Islamic teaching.I should make a good relationship with my colleagues and friends and I shoud do everything acceptable by others.If I have a different opinion,I should give its explanation and discuss it deliberately wth my colleagues.I should make a decision by sharing opinion not only my own.
I listened to others'advices if in my thought it were right.But I
refused it when according to my thought it was not right.I live in a modern society so I should appreciate others' rights.I should care to my family and to my neighbours.I should help them if it is needed.I should obey the society's ethics and have a good moral
I should give attention to others privacy and others interests.
I can not live myself.I always need other's help although I always try to do everything by myself because I have many shotcomings..I am not a perfect human being.
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2006-09-04 00:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... deep question. I think I got to where I am in life because of choices I've made. My decisions are influenced by other people, but ultimately, they're mine to make. I live life how I think I should, not how other people think I should. Mostly through learning from my mistakes and observing others and analysing everything.
2006-09-03 23:33:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trial and error my friend,as well as the use of common sense.If I listened to others,the world would have ended like one very educated man told me it was going to in 1986.Some advise is good,but it is trial and error to learn what is good and what is not.It is best for you to make your own choices and do so with realism and love in your heart.Not starry eyed love with another person,but love that is conducive of good and right choices.You know good from bad and right from wrong.With those two tools,you have a good start on doing anything your heart desires.
2006-09-03 23:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Rick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your life for "you" because often, advice is only worth what you pay for it. No one will live your life for you ... until you are wealthy. Until then, opinions are like butt holes: everyone has one.
Do what makes you feel productive and gives you gratification enough to get up in the morning, enthused. If you like to make people smile, serve them well and you will be rewarded.
One must learn to serve before one can truly lead.
2006-09-03 23:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by pickle head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a combination of trial and error, learning from mistakes, taking the advice of those that you think are wiser, and for some people .. who never learn .. feeling pain over and over, continuing to do the same unproductive things over and over, knowing what the outcome will be, but doing it anyway.
2006-09-03 23:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) I used to care what ppl thought about how i live my life....NOT anymore. 2) part of living is finding your way....your whole life is all about finding. besides...you haven't lost it...it there waiting for you to live it to the fullest. 3) accept yourself, thats all that matters. would you rather live your life the way you want and be happy with nno regrets, or live it the way you think ppl want you too...always be worrying about whether or not you have done it right for others or ....guess what..you can NEVER please everyone...but you can please yourself...and that narrows down how many to please....sounds good to me!!!
2006-09-03 23:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by Firefly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no alternate to hard work. We should listen to good advice of others, because it lead us to correct path.
By achievement of success & level of satisfaction we can gauge it.
We must take care about other's expectation also.
2006-09-03 23:30:26 · answer #8 · answered by pas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i go by on what i think is right...obviously my parents taught me lots of things and i do learn things from others...and i dont care about what others think of me...i am me and ppl have to accept it...! =)
i wont change for anybody...except for myself...
good question!!!!
2006-09-03 23:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by ξℓ Çђαηφσ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use a map
2006-09-03 23:26:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋