My bf is 42 yrs old and seem to have no sex drive at all... I am 5 yrs younger than him and still want some intimacy... what can I do to get in interested in sex again?
2006-09-03 16:23:05 · 17 answers · asked by insubordinate_bytch 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Get him to eat a healthier diet and take vitamins would be a good start. If he smokes or drinks, try to get him to quit. A moderate amount of vigorous exercise will help him too. After that, I think you would have to get creative or see a doctor. It could all be mental too, so don't overlook that possibility! Good luck!
2006-09-03 16:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's something going on in his life -- maybe job-related stress or overwork -- that could be at least part of the problem. Talk with him about it. There's nothing magic that happens when a man turns 40 that should make him lose his sex drive. I am 65 and still enjoy sex.
2006-09-03 16:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by Richard B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After 45 the male sex drive slowly and steadily decreases.
But at 42 with no sex drive at all-- he needs to see a doctor. There are circulation, kidney, liver and heart problems that can cause his lack of sex drive.
2006-09-03 16:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shower more often?
No, seriously, if he's lost all interest at 42, there is a problem, either physically or emotionally. Talk to him about it, and get him to go with you to an MD first, and then maybe to counseling.
2006-09-03 16:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm 67 and still like a rabbit. Have him ask his doctor as there are many types of medication that he is on that could have caused this problem. Also, medication is available to heat up the bedroom scene.
2006-09-03 16:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf is 40 and he is not even close to losing it, I believe it is not the age, I lost my sex drive with my ex husband when I feel out of love with him. but with my bf of 7 years don't have that problem now.
2006-09-03 16:38:37 · answer #6 · answered by Diana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 51 and I still need it at least once a week.
When I was 40 I needed it almost every day still.
Maybe the problem is depression or something.
2006-09-03 16:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe - but it does not have to be that way. I am 43 and my sex drive is as high or higher than it has ever been.
2006-09-03 16:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by rp_iowa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I csan only speak for myself. I'm 59 with a year old daughter and trying like hell for another.
2006-09-03 17:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by alcavy609 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
loss or lack of libido at a young age suggests the need to evalute medically, feel free to email me with any questions
2006-09-03 16:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by HK3738 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋