I am a 16 almost 17 year old guy, been with my girlfriend for 6 months now. It's been going good, we both have said we love each other and we lost our virginity together. She is also 17. My question revolves around this: Whenever we're together things feel great, but we don't have the same conversations and jokes like we used to. I don't understand why it is, perhaps it could be growing apart?. I get nervous everytime I'm not with her because perhaps she's hitting on another guy, or has feelings growing for someone else who isn't me? I'm not sure deep down if I want to break up with her, or let it last and see what happens. I have a feeling the only reason I may want it to continue is because I couldn't picture seeing her with another guy. She admits she is jealous at times too. Our relationship involves us going to different schools, and I have ditched alot of friends to be with her at times. If anyone has any advice it would be most appreciated. Thankyou!!
2006-09-03 16:19:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're so young. You're probably maturing and growing apart.
2006-09-03 16:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by mrs.dennis.10.6.07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to tell from these few lines if you should throw away your relationship. First of all, you shouldn't have had sex at your age. Second, you shouldnt have had sex if you had only been going out a couple of months. Its ok to wait. But back to the problem. I think it sounds like you two are growing up, and unfortunently, growing up with different likes, dislikes, and personalities. People can change a lot in just a couple of months. Also, dont give up your friends. Your friends are the only people who will be there through break ups and bad times. If you abandon all your friends, and then you do end up breaking up, who will you turn to? You cant expect them to just pick you back up. A lot of relationship problems stem from inner problems of one or the other person. You may sub consiously be holding it against her that she took you away from your friends. Try to reestablish those friends and then incorporate her into your friend group. It is a lot easier when you both share the same friends, and who says her friends and your friends cant all hang out? And the jealously probably stems from the different schools thing. You dont know what is happening at the others school. Just talk to her and tell her how you feel. And try to trust. If she really loves you, she will trust you in turn.
2006-09-03 23:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of the people that I know of that have long term relationships never doubted the fact that they should be together. The only reason why you are still with her is because you lost your virginity to her. This is something that a lot of people go through, make it as painless as possible, and split up.
2006-09-03 23:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by CHAD K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously the most honest thing i can say is too leave her bcuz she is goin to make you go insane you are alreadly obsessive over her maybe even possessive you need space take the summer off you never the next time you see her over the length of time it may all be ok
2006-09-03 23:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by Brook-Lyn19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to believe in yourself and her and to be creative in the relationship. Doing things together, improving each other's lives is the key to any relationship. And if you feel this way, it means that you don't think you deserve her.
Think about you good features, attitude, ... and enjoy it!
Any realtionship revolves but it doesn't mean that it will end,
2006-09-03 23:25:15 · answer #5 · answered by cosmicwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a break. The relationship is too new to not have anything to talk about already.
2006-09-03 23:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just afraid of her as she may find someone else. Take a break and be cool.
2006-09-03 23:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋