I have been friends with this girl for 17 years. I know I can talk to her about anything. We allways tell each other what is bothering us. Well my bf hasn't been spending a lot of time with me latley and I have talked to her about it. But everytime I say something to her she always gives me negitive advice like well maybe he's cheating on you or maybe he doesn't love you anymore. I know for a fact that my bf is not cheating. it's mostly him just stayin home to play poker online or hang out with his friends. I trust my bf. But I dont' think she has a right to say anything negative about my relationship when she is with a guy that does drugs, and calls her kids bastards. and he's cheated on her and she still stays with him.
2006-09-03 16:19:02 · 10 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There is no way he is cheatin on me with her.. She doesn't live in the same town anymore. and I know he would NEVER cheat on me with her.
2006-09-03 16:23:45 · update #1
It's easier for people to judge the lives of others if their own is screwed up.
2006-09-03 16:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just projecting the unfairness about her relationship. If you don't want to hear her negativity about your BF...then don't bring him up in your conversations...especially if you already know what he is doing. She can only give you advice based on what she has either been through or is going thru...if she doesn't trust her BF...what makes you think she trusts any guy for that matter...in her own way she is just trying to help.
2006-09-03 23:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just wants to connect with you that's all. You know her guys no good at all and so she may just dog out your bf to have something 4 you all to talk about. next time she does it bash her man and yours at the same time. I bet you all start laughing.
2006-09-03 23:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by Lady G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are getting upset because you have doubts about your boyfriend whether you want to admit it or not. I think that she is looking out for you. She doesn't want to see you go through what she has gone through. If you don't like her advice and thoughts just don't talk to her about it anymore.
2006-09-03 23:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is jealous of your relationship and hopes you will leave your bf,maybe she wants him.Stop confideing in her,it is plain to see she is no help to you.
2006-09-03 23:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hum, if your girlfriend keeps telling you your bf is cheating on you. Maybe he is.....with her. Stranger things have happened.
2006-09-03 23:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by wishuponstarson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then tell her the same thing you just typed to us. Maybe she's jealous that you have someone that really cares for you.
2006-09-03 23:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's saying he's cheating on you because he's cheating on you with her.
totally kidding. probably not, girls will be girls.
2006-09-03 23:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by uhd0rableo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just being mean because she doesnt have a good relationship...it probably is hard for her when you go around complaining about your relationship WHEN her relationship is much worse!!!!
2006-09-03 23:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by andy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it.
2006-09-03 23:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by joe v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋